Topic: " How Can Mars Make Venus Happy?"
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Tue 05/17/16 03:02 PM
Edited by EyeAmYourHost39 on Tue 05/17/16 03:09 PM
Good Day my M2 friends, I want to start by thanking all that keep my forums a hit & relevant, its so intriguing to know my "Vocal Avengers" has intelligence & a beautiful mind on how they truly feel. I even learn some new things as you respond, especially with the older generation. Well, I want to take a small break on the controversy issues & this time around have a little fun in the dating room. Don't worry all my politic roomers I will be back with more heated topics. Okay, today's hot tea is a matter of question for anybody but I am curious what you ladies feel and add input on this one. Here we go, I put myself up for an example. I'm now in a brand new relationship with a beautiful woman, we have a lot in common and we both which I like to believe god brought us to one another. we had a conversation about what makes a relationship work these days. So we both gave knowledge on what we think works. I was impressed on my baby's thinking. I learned from her as well I know she learned from me. The question America is us ( Men) being Mars, what constitutes true love & happiness when you are with or courting your Venus (Woman)? How do you know you in love? How you know your Mr/Ms Right Now could be your Mr/Ms your future Beau? How can you distinct real love & a high school crush type of lust? When we hear our parents, our grand parents , & maybe our great grand parents tell stories on how they met and fell in love and still keeping it going today ( A Golden Marriage). If you in a Gay/Transgender relationship, again how would you identify true love? True love to me is like , well, if you ever seen the movie " The Best Man" where the groom to be received some wisdom advice stating that " If a man gives you his last piece of cake in this scenario, & he feeds you his last bite, that man really loves you". Now I won't say that scenario always work but it does give the loved one a warm feeling of you being so thoughtful he must really care for me...".True love to me is riding twin Harleys down a sunset rural road. Love to me is you , me , a box of pizza, some red wine, grabbing the blanket off the bed & cuddling on the love seat watching Netflix. Something scary like a horror to get her to rely on my for security. Others say they identify love in there own way. so to the Venuses tell us Mars what makes you happy & what works in todays relationships. Is wanted a one on one relationship is a concept of the past? A relic ?or is it about casual dating or swinging, & engaging in infidelity is the new thing? Does Happiness still has some play today? if so tell me about it
can't wait to see what you have on your mind!

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Wed 05/18/16 06:42 AM
See how secretive women are??...15 hrs. and they're not coughing up any information. We are on our own, dude.scared

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Wed 05/18/16 06:58 AM
How Can Mars Make Venus Happy?"
A cunning linguist....

Robxbox73's photo
Wed 05/18/16 07:02 AM
OP can you shorten your posts? Too long a drive in the morning.

Conrad_73's photo
Wed 05/18/16 07:02 AM

OP can you shorten your posts? Too long a drive in the morning.
laugh

EyeAmYourHost39's photo
Wed 05/18/16 07:17 AM
sorry can't be edited...the best thing about my post its whatever long or short I want it....my vocal avengers requires info...sorry kid..lol

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Wed 05/18/16 07:19 AM


ITS TRULY A TEAM EFFORT.....MOST YOUNG PEOPLE ARE CLUELESS,,,

EyeAmYourHost39's photo
Wed 05/18/16 07:25 AM
Maxstex,

lol shhhhh your secret is safe with me.......lol

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Wed 05/18/16 07:28 AM
Actually I need more coffee before I read it and understand what I would ask is paragraphs would help me a lot because at times I think I miss part of what you are wanting to convey.
Morning world...
BBL

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Wed 05/18/16 07:57 AM

How Can Mars Make Venus Happy?"
A cunning linguist....

laugh

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Wed 05/18/16 07:58 AM
laugh

mariaclaracruz23's photo
Wed 05/18/16 10:21 AM
Maybe you could list your questions using bullets :smile:

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Wed 05/18/16 11:16 AM

"How Can Mars Make Venus Happy?"

Hmmmmnnnn....
- when two stars collide???:smile: laugh :tongue:

- when they both live on EARTH?:smile: laugh laugh :tongue:

- when they both play a guessing game?:smile: laugh :tongue:

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Wed 05/18/16 12:40 PM

Good Day my M2 friends, I want to start by thanking all that keep my forums a hit & relevant, its so intriguing to know my "Vocal Avengers" has intelligence & a beautiful mind on how they truly feel. I even learn some new things as you respond, especially with the older generation. Well, I want to take a small break on the controversy issues & this time around have a little fun in the dating room. Don't worry all my politic roomers I will be back with more heated topics. Okay, today's hot tea is a matter of question for anybody but I am curious what you ladies feel and add input on this one. Here we go, I put myself up for an example. I'm now in a brand new relationship with a beautiful woman, we have a lot in common and we both which I like to believe god brought us to one another. we had a conversation about what makes a relationship work these days. So we both gave knowledge on what we think works. I was impressed on my baby's thinking. I learned from her as well I know she learned from me. The question America is us ( Men) being Mars, what constitutes true love & happiness when you are with or courting your Venus (Woman)? How do you know you in love? How you know your Mr/Ms Right Now could be your Mr/Ms your future Beau? How can you distinct real love & a high school crush type of lust? When we hear our parents, our grand parents , & maybe our great grand parents tell stories on how they met and fell in love and still keeping it going today ( A Golden Marriage). If you in a Gay/Transgender relationship, again how would you identify true love? True love to me is like , well, if you ever seen the movie " The Best Man" where the groom to be received some wisdom advice stating that " If a man gives you his last piece of cake in this scenario, & he feeds you his last bite, that man really loves you". Now I won't say that scenario always work but it does give the loved one a warm feeling of you being so thoughtful he must really care for me...".True love to me is riding twin Harleys down a sunset rural road. Love to me is you , me , a box of pizza, some red wine, grabbing the blanket off the bed & cuddling on the love seat watching Netflix. Something scary like a horror to get her to rely on my for security. Others say they identify love in there own way. so to the Venuses tell us Mars what makes you happy & what works in todays relationships. Is wanted a one on one relationship is a concept of the past? A relic ?or is it about casual dating or swinging, & engaging in infidelity is the new thing? Does Happiness still has some play today? if so tell me about it
can't wait to see what you have on your mind!


I don't think there is any guarantee that love is real between two people or that it will last.. I think you take your chances on love as you do in life everyday...

I also think your chances are better if your partner is your best friend and someone you can see yourself spending everyday with. I think a good relationship has to be something you work at everyday and don't take each other for granted. Go into it knowing there will be disagreements and the key is knowing how to argue and settle those disagreements.. Sometimes words can be said to hurt the other person in the moment... just know that no matter how many times you say you are sorry those words can never be put back in your mouth to take them away...

I believe there is lust that people mistake for love... that I don't think will last..

Personally I do believe in true love and in that case I believe that Love and Lust go together hand in hand...

But then I'm a dreamer and a romantic....I want to find someone that I can look deep into their eyes and see into their soul and know they are my true love... to me love is finding the other half of myself... what we do after that doesn't matter...it will all be enjoyed...

In answer to your question Does Happiness still has some play today? My answer to it is YES I think it does or at least it should...

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Wed 05/18/16 02:20 PM
If the path to true love is just a couple of Harleys....
I'm going to the bank and applying for a loan....
Vroooooommmmm....

TMommy's photo
Wed 05/18/16 02:39 PM
speaking of which ...just got a message this morning
some guy asking me if I wanted a ride



pretty...sure..he ..


wait up...maybe he doesn't even own a bike surprised surprised

Jaan Doh 's photo
Wed 05/18/16 02:45 PM

speaking of which ...just got a message this morning
some guy asking me if I wanted a ride



pretty...sure..he ..


wait up...maybe he doesn't even own a bike surprised surprised


But he may want to take you to the moon....

:laughing: :laughing:

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Wed 05/18/16 03:51 PM
" How Can Mars Make Venus Happy?"

Keep its orbit to itself unless invited?
Not treat Venus like a fragile planet that can't make itself happy, and isn't happy unless Mars is plunging itself into Venus's gravity well?
Flowers?

what constitutes true love & happiness when you are with or courting your Venus (Woman)?

The standard brain chemicals and my willingness to feel, express, and explore them.

How do you know you in love?

Preferably in far hindsight.
As knowing beforehand usually leads to disaster as people try to control it to make it better, or control it to make sure they never lose it, and no longer allowing it to naturally/organically develop.

How you know your Mr/Ms Right Now could be your Mr/Ms your future Beau?

Preferably in far hindsight, for same reasons as before.

Because when you get things like this:
True love to me is riding twin Harleys down a sunset rural road

what generally happens is people then look specifically for when they're "riding twin Harleys down a sunset rural road," and if they don't experience that exact experience, or do and it doesn't feel like they think it should, then they tell themselves they aren't "really" in love, and start actively working against the relationship.

All while ignoring that they're "on twin jetskis, flying through a sunset lit ocean."
But that's not on Harleys on a sunset rural road, so something must be wrong and bad.

How can you distinct real love & a high school crush type of lust?

Where there is lust there is the possibility of love.
Lust is part of the process that leads to love.
Might as well ask "How can you distinct going fast & traveling in 1st gear?"

You don't get to choose who you fall in love with.
Your body is mostly responsible for that.
All you consciously get is veto power.

If you feel lust for someone that is just the beginning of the process to build love.
If it doesn't become "love" then either they, or you, ultimately said to your subconscious in some way "no, not that one, don't pair bond or mate with them."

When we hear our parents, our grand parents , & maybe our great grand parents tell stories on how they met and fell in love and still keeping it going today

They're usually leaving a lot of things out.
No one is as dishonest to you about their relationship than your own family. They don't want you to see their failings and weaknesses and mistakes unless it's the type of mistake/weakness people on job interviews use like "caring too much."

Is wanted a one on one relationship is a concept of the past?

No. But not keeping your options open and taking a risk seems to be.

is it about casual dating or swinging, & engaging in infidelity is the new thing?

With maybe "casual dating" being the exception, those things haven't been new for a long long time.

Does Happiness still has some play today?

More than ever before.
Thank being infected by utilitarianism along with christianity for that.
Used to be finding a purpose and meaning was most important.
Now it's finding happiness. People keep trying to find a purpose and meaning that makes them happy, but that is about as rare as unicorns simply because of the way humans are designed.

The biggest "problem" is the need for constant "happy" stimulation.
If you aren't always happy, then something must be "wrong" or "bad."

can't wait to see what you have on your mind!

I ate too much salt yesterday, and it's really bothering me right now.
I need a banana or something.
That's what's on my mind as I have to sit at this computer waiting.






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Thu 05/19/16 08:33 AM
Rebel Archer,


great !