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Topic: making love!!
cherrylencaniel13 Joined Sat 03/12/16 Posts: 27	Sat 05/21/16 12:03 AM
Wht do you think about marriage frst then make love??

Maxsterx Joined Mon 03/07/16 Posts: 2314	Sat 05/21/16 12:05 AM
Not recommended.

cherrylencaniel13 Joined Sat 03/12/16 Posts: 27	Sat 05/21/16 12:07 AM
which one marriage?

Maxsterx Joined Mon 03/07/16 Posts: 2314	Sat 05/21/16 12:10 AM
which one marriage? I was talking about marriage before sex... Although marriage is never recommended.

mikey5360 Joined Wed 04/23/14 Posts: 26096	Sat 05/21/16 12:11 AM Edited by mikey5360 on Sat 05/21/16 12:11 AM
I dunno... I mean, I like the idea of waiting until married.... But what if you discover your not sexually compatible.... Then your stuck in a marriage with a lousy sex life.... I have been there and it isn't fun...eats away at you.... Whether we like it or not sex is a major part of marriage.... You have to be sexually compatible with your mate....

Robxbox73 Joined Sun 12/27/15 Posts: 5302	Sat 05/21/16 12:20 AM
Marriage first then sex? Sounds like the honeymoon. What's so special about that?

Duttoneer Joined Sun 07/01/12 Posts: 4649	Sat 05/21/16 01:27 AM
It is a personal choice whether or not to wait until after marriage before making love, if you choose to wait it should be respected, because when it is truelove for one another it should not matter either way in my opinion

Kindlightheart Joined Fri 09/19/14 Posts: 2370	Sat 05/21/16 01:45 AM
Hahaha...seriously...hmmm..

cherrylencaniel13 Joined Sat 03/12/16 Posts: 27	Sat 05/21/16 05:59 AM
But some men only wants sex and walk away :-(

cherrylencaniel13 Joined Sat 03/12/16 Posts: 27	Sat 05/21/16 06:00 AM
Yes im serious about this topic hehe

cherrylencaniel13 Joined Sat 03/12/16 Posts: 27	Sat 05/21/16 06:00 AM
Yes very special that day after marriage then making love

cherrylencaniel13 Joined Sat 03/12/16 Posts: 27	Sat 05/21/16 06:02 AM
Not recommended. Why not!!

cherrylencaniel13 Joined Sat 03/12/16 Posts: 27	Sat 05/21/16 06:02 AM
which one marriage? I was talking about marriage before sex... Although marriage is never recommended. Haha but I recommend :-D

cherrylencaniel13 Joined Sat 03/12/16 Posts: 27	Sat 05/21/16 06:03 AM
I dunno... I mean, I like the idea of waiting until married.... But what if you discover your not sexually compatible.... Then your stuck in a marriage with a lousy sex life.... I have been there and it isn't fun...eats away at you.... Whether we like it or not sex is a major part of marriage.... You have to be sexually compatible with your mate.... but... men wants only sex and walk away but I may not say that all men

PassionateWriter Joined Sun 05/15/16 Posts: 140	Sat 05/21/16 06:17 AM
There's more to love than just making it. I never quite agreed with that whole "make love" thing when it comes to sex. Sex is sex. Insert tab A into slot B. Woody Allen once wrote in a screenplay, "Love for me is very deep. Sex just has to go a few inches." And it's 100% true. Making love isn't about sex. You can make love to a woman by doing nothing more than holding her in your arms and kissing her, and telling her how much she means to you. Making love? thpppt. If more people showed love, what an incredible world we'd have. But, also, sex isn't just plain sex either. There's many ways to have sex without the full-on sex. Using your hands, your mouths, whatever it takes to achieve climax. That's sex. I was with a Muslim woman for many years, and we could never have full-on intercourse until marriage, because of her religion. Didn't stop us from having fun though. =)

ciretom Joined Wed 06/18/14 Posts: 4953	Sat 05/21/16 07:48 AM
Wht do you think about marriage frst then make love?? I think if you actually believe it's "making love" then it should come before getting married. But some men only wants sex and walk away Pick one from the other "some." Finding the right mate for you is your responsibility, it's not really their responsibility to be the right mate for you, at best it's their choice to try and be, and the only reason they will ever try is they get something out of it, i.e. reciprocity they'll love you as long as you love them, they'll help the relationship as long as you help the relationship. Marriage is no guarantee the guy won't walk away at any time. There is no guarantee the guy won't stick around and make your life miserable. Depends on your divorce laws.

Maxsterx Joined Mon 03/07/16 Posts: 2314	Sat 05/21/16 08:32 AM
Yes very special that day after marriage then making love  Wait...I still have to wait another day after marriage...you're killing me, baby.

sparkyae5 Joined Thu 03/28/13 Posts: 1595	Sat 05/21/16 09:39 AM
But some men only wants sex and walk away :-( [/quote ''WE TEACH PEOPLE HOW TO TREAT US'' DON'T GIVE HIM THE COOKIE UNLESS HE MEETS YOUR STANDARDS !!!!! WAKE UP GIRL.....YES YOUR STANDARDS ,,,NOT HIS THATS WHY THERE ARE SO MANY PROBLEMS.....''MAKE THE BOY EARN IT''.....

IgorFrankensteen Joined Thu 10/01/09 Posts: 5444	Sat 05/21/16 09:49 AM
Wht do you think about marriage frst then make love?? It only works when the people involved have a certain set of convictions about what marriage means to them. That's the challenge. Not morality.

sparkyae5 Joined Thu 03/28/13 Posts: 1595	Sat 05/21/16 10:05 AM
Wht do you think about marriage frst then make love?? It only works when the people involved have a certain set of convictions about what marriage means to them. That's the challenge. Not morality. ITS OUR MORAL VALUES THAT SETS US ABOVE BEING JUST A ANIMAL....