Seems like most of my African sister only want to meet Whites here, Some headlines even go " WHITES ONLY". And Most White don't respond to Black brothers. When you say hi to someone most they will judge you so quickly but my point is, we are all here looking for different things, and because some people re not open there will stay looking for something that never exists. it is good to be open. sometime race doesn't matter. its about how you know and feel. anyway this my observation

well I don't know about that,, true I haven't heard from not many sisters at all but a lot of white and Asian women have been reaching out to me and I have went out on a few dates with some of them. just haven't made my mind up on which one of them I'm going to get serious with.

Those are interesting points. It would be nice to know what attracts black women to white guys. Money or a good job is something anybody can have. So, only seeking white men for that reason would be dumb. Especially, some of the white guys I know.

So, what are the reasons? Is it a physical appearance thing? Is it being a rebel thing? Hmmmm.

Try keepin dat pimp hane skrong....heard it works.

seems to me, people have many options when they are online and need some way to narrow it down

why they narrow it down by race, may be because they are just comfortable amongst others of the same race(sticking with what they know),, or because they are uncomfortable amongst them(trying to distance themselves from what they know)


there can also be stereotypes at play about the erotic nature of someone 'different'

or just a deviation from those who have hurt them in the past

Complicated issue, all one can say is, it's about "preferences".
WHY they have these preferences, only they know.

I don't typically look at race at all, and as much as hate generalities, I find Black and Asian women are better in bed then white women.(OMG I can feel the heat already )
But that is of course a generality...I've had some white women that were very good lovers.

In any case, the reasons for what anyone is looking for is as diverse as there are people.

The title reminds me of how Michael jackson went from black to white

LOL!

Good for you and Good luck. that's is good news.

hahaha fun huh?

Once she goes white...she's there for spite.

that is racism

White I'm dating only white. Label me what you want.

I once dated only black

when I last dated it was primarily white(hardly ever american though,,lol)

I have never had racial requirements one way or the other, its just who I am around and have most in common with at the time

Sounds racist here

HUH? What does someone not answering a nudge or a message got to do with racism?

That is true Searay260 and I agree with you there

probably they want a green card

OKCupid has an area where they do statistical analysis of their members. The info comes from member profiles. American black women seem to feel less accepted than any other race/gender group.

* Their conclusion, not mine.