Topic: Thought I was done but here i am
some_what_pushover's photo
Mon 09/12/16 06:04 PM
Was in a relationship for a while. It was getting progressively worse but I enjoyed the downtime and being in a relationship. Just having somewhere to share with. Now Im single again and i don't know where to start. Taking things slow, does she like me, is it too late to call her all this stuff feels tedious now. I just want to jump to the part where we have been dating for like 3 months already. So i guess my question is how do you start over after a long term relationship?

SitkaRains's photo
Mon 09/12/16 08:09 PM
So i guess my question is how do you start over after a long term relationship?


Slowly very slowly grasshoppa... lol

No seriously, I get you want to jump ahead and stop for a minute and think about this..
You will miss so many wonderful steps in the relationship...

Take your time

I personally don't go by all the dating rules since somehow I break them anyway do what feels natural and right for you both talk to her.

best wishes
Oh yeah welcome back...

some_what_pushover's photo
Mon 09/12/16 10:12 PM
yeah i hear you :)

I don't even know where to start now. I've been "domesticated" for so long that i feel like i can't handle the wild single life.

i use to be very confident now i don't even know what to do out here. Im all outta wack. one thing in particular is that if i someone i might like i just went to tal to them. now i overthink things and miss opportunities. I can i get my "game" back?

sybariticguy's photo
Mon 09/12/16 10:25 PM
Perhaps if you chose not to focus on your " game " and instead focused on being honest with yourself and then sharing that with women you may find your comfort zone expanding...