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Topic: Can you be friends after a break up?
TwilightsTwin's photo
Sun 11/11/07 01:36 PM
Opinions plz

Jessicababe1985's photo
Sun 11/11/07 01:37 PM
hmmm No if you had sex yes if you didnt laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

dragonyosh's photo
Sun 11/11/07 01:37 PM
yes if you dont try to go and mess with her relationships

Queene123's photo
Sun 11/11/07 01:38 PM
that all depends on you or the other, im still friends with many of my exs even my ex hubby i onyl talk to him when it has to do with our son

TongueKISS's photo
Sun 11/11/07 01:39 PM
Why would you want to be friends... Breaking up means you want them out of your life right? For me there is no way that I could do that because a friendship is only for ex couples that have under age childern together.

no photo
Sun 11/11/07 01:40 PM
twilight if you give me a chance ot break up with you .. we will be friends

oldsage's photo
Sun 11/11/07 01:40 PM
Yes, I am good friends with ladies I used to date. Just got invited to one ladies wedding. We dated for 14months.

RockNOut's photo
Sun 11/11/07 01:41 PM
I have found in my personal experience that if the break-up is not a bad one and both parties truly still want to be friends...

the friendship thing usually only works out for a little while until one of you starts dating someone new. Then the friendship usually starts to fizzle and becomes pointless. LOL

canubetheone's photo
Sun 11/11/07 01:41 PM
all depends how ur relationship with that person was. i was with someone for 10yrs an we been broken up a year now an yes were still good friends even though he with someone. so it just depends on your relationship an how it ends with that person.

TwilightsTwin's photo
Sun 11/11/07 01:41 PM
lol @ soldierlaugh

Holly Dolly's photo
Sun 11/11/07 01:42 PM
Not if either side still has feelings for the other!
If one still has feelings, they will always be trying to wedge themselves back into the other's life.
Tried it before, and this person screwed up several possible relationships before I put an end to the friendship!
Maybe if there is some distance, where you won't have to see that person all the time and they won't know about everything going on in your life...

Gemini84's photo
Sun 11/11/07 01:43 PM
I have to agree with Tongue.

Staying friends after breaking up, most of the time turns out badly. Causes drama later on and an ex is just like having baggage... a lot of people are uncomfortable with someone they date who is still in contact with an ex. So unless there are children involved... my opinion on it is negative, lol.

moonangel's photo
Sun 11/11/07 01:43 PM
I think if both parties truly want to remain friends it can work. It has in my past relationships.

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Sun 11/11/07 01:44 PM
sory twilight had to throw that out there

TwilightsTwin's photo
Sun 11/11/07 01:45 PM
Nice advice new2a2

Dragoness's photo
Sun 11/11/07 01:45 PM
If both parties are able to let go of the pain of the break then yes friendship is possible with certain boundaries in place, of course. Discussing the new love in their lives may not be possible at first but as time goes it gets easier. I am friends with most of my ex's but like I said there are boundaries in place.flowerforyou

no photo
Sun 11/11/07 01:47 PM
Two of my best friends are former gfs. So I think it depends on the individuals involved. I would never try to be friends with my ex-wife, for example, because I KNOW there would never be anything good coming out of that arrangement.


imblessedklp's photo
Sun 11/11/07 01:48 PM
if i ended up falling for the guy..no..if i really wasnt into him, yeslaugh

no photo
Sun 11/11/07 01:48 PM
It really is hard when someone betrayed you burned you broke your heart so sometimes i am friends with my x boyfriends but my x husband thats a different story

Totage's photo
Sun 11/11/07 01:49 PM
After a break up, we usually agree to be friends, but never see each other again.

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