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Topic: are dating sites destroying your joy?
Snoman1951's photo
Wed 12/21/16 10:59 AM
happy

yellowrose10's photo
Wed 12/21/16 12:23 PM
No. I make my own joy IRL or online

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Wed 12/21/16 02:20 PM
Edited by no1phD on Wed 12/21/16 02:21 PM
Hmmm.. first off !all the happy people hang out at my place..lol....
And being on a dating site for a long period of time.. is much the same as your workplace.. you have some happy bee workers.. and some not-so-happy bee workers... and just like the worksite you choose who you associate with... for the most part..lol.

Now for the last part of the question does being on a dating site for a long period of time have an effect on you.?..
Well honestly!!..yes ! Yes it does!.. some days you can be grateful to have a place to go and make chit-chat.. and then sometime when you find yourself online.. you feel like (my God) I really need to get a life..lol..

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Wed 12/21/16 04:22 PM

have you noticed the negativity?

the repetition?

the griping? complaining? the selfish wish list of needs?





ever wonder where the happy people go?




does being on a dating site for years have an affect on you?

Its similar to being out in the community, very tiring so you take a break from the scene.

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Sun 01/08/17 02:01 PM



It is a microcosm of a bigger picture.
Those who are negative, even melancholic,
have a big venue for spreading their misery.

Those who are happy can wander in and out
without much harm.

Agree with this...

Don't forget there's a helluva lot of miserable people out there who don't know how to improve their happiness and quality of life on their own. I think for many it's more than 'not knowing', closer to 'can't be @r$ed' or 'lack the backbone', cos it would mean facing their own shortcomings ..

Exactly Crystal. biggrin

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Sun 01/08/17 02:01 PM



It is a microcosm of a bigger picture.
Those who are negative, even melancholic,
have a big venue for spreading their misery.

Those who are happy can wander in and out
without much harm.

Agree with this...

Don't forget there's a helluva lot of miserable people out there who don't know how to improve their happiness and quality of life on their own. I think for many it's more than 'not knowing', closer to 'can't be @r$ed' or 'lack the backbone', cos it would mean facing their own shortcomings ..

Exactly Crystal. biggrin

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Sun 01/08/17 02:03 PM


have you noticed the negativity?.

yes

the repetition?

yes

the griping? complaining? the selfish wish list of needs?

yes

ever wonder where the happy people go?

yes


does being on a dating site for years have an affect on you?

yes

Oh No!

But then I think and thinking is good
Now all I need is someone who I think, thinks good too.
Along with most other things on my wish listfrustrated slaphead

laugh Love this one. laugh

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Sun 01/08/17 02:03 PM


have you noticed the negativity?.

yes

the repetition?

yes

the griping? complaining? the selfish wish list of needs?

yes

ever wonder where the happy people go?

yes


does being on a dating site for years have an affect on you?

yes

Oh No!

But then I think and thinking is good
Now all I need is someone who I think, thinks good too.
Along with most other things on my wish listfrustrated slaphead

laugh Love this one. laugh

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Sun 01/08/17 02:11 PM


have you noticed the negativity?.

yes

the repetition?

yes

the griping? complaining? the selfish wish list of needs?

yes

ever wonder where the happy people go?

yes


does being on a dating site for years have an affect on you?

yes

Oh No!

But then I think and thinking is good
Now all I need is someone who I think, thinks good too.
Along with most other things on my wish listfrustrated slaphead

laugh Love this one. laugh

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