Topic: need help plz!
Lookingfortheone1068's photo
Thu 11/15/07 08:16 PM
Ok so I have this girl in Michigan that I know and like. She wants to come and live with me because her mom hits her and they dnt get along. Heres the problem...I cant get my place for another 2 months. And my parents dont know about her. And she wants to come here tonight.
What do I tell her?

Puffins1958's photo
Thu 11/15/07 08:19 PM
Honesty...is always the best policy. That way you never have to worry, it will never come back to bite you in the A$$......

thedoors's photo
Thu 11/15/07 08:19 PM
Tell her to be rational and take a breath. Can't do something like that without thinking it through and you need to get your ducks in a row before taking that step. If she cares about you, she'll sacrifice and wait until the time is right before moving in. Hope it works out for both of you!

sweetromance's photo
Thu 11/15/07 08:20 PM
ifshesreallyin danger putherup ina hotel whileuhelphercontact the proper authorities to find a more sensable permanent solution

djxray's photo
Thu 11/15/07 08:20 PM
tell her to get a hotel for the night and figure things out tomm

whudufuxup's photo
Thu 11/15/07 08:21 PM
u got money, best get a hotel for the night stay there then break it t o ur parents later

adj4u's photo
Thu 11/15/07 08:22 PM
she could go to a battered womens shelter

till you get your own place

longhairbiker's photo
Thu 11/15/07 08:23 PM
Tell her the truth. And make sure she's telling you the truth. Good luck.

icauzemischief's photo
Thu 11/15/07 08:27 PM
If she is being abused at home, she can contact a domestic violence shelter that will help her until she can find another place to stay. This will give you time to consider your options and get your life in order before you have someone else who will depend on you too. Trying to start a relationship with both of your lives in turmoil will only double the problems.

I know advice is always easier than given......I wish you luck.

no photo
Thu 11/15/07 08:27 PM
well its up to you if you love her you'll do whatever you can to make sure nothing bad happens to her..yea do tell her the truth not only to her also your parents they've got to know whats going on..

mry's photo
Thu 11/15/07 08:29 PM
Tell her you work for thr FBI and are on a secret mission tonight! laugh

JerzeyKittee's photo
Thu 11/15/07 08:31 PM
Make sure she's telling the truth first.... she can always get help. If you aren't ready for your own place....

Me personally.. I dont tink I'd get involved with it, until she did something for herself first. I just feel, that if she doesn't get out there and do something, she's asking someone else to do it. and you just don't know.

Good Luck