Topic: How to start a date and move on
channuabraham's photo
Thu 01/12/17 02:54 AM
I am a virgin and my GF felt I am boring what would be reason

IgorFrankensteen's photo
Thu 01/12/17 04:52 AM
? If someone tells you that you are "boring," it's a criticism that is specific to them.

It's like saying you are too tall, or too tan, or too pale.

One example I have seen myself, where I was said to be "too boring," was when I was very young, and the girl in question wanted dating and so on to consist entirely of the male taking her places to dance, or otherwise be entertained, and I was so childishly in swoon over her, I couldn't manage to do more than grin foolishly and stare at her adoringly.

But I've also known people who said they were "bored" when what I wanted to do, was take them places and do fun things together, because what they wanted was some sort of wild emotional drama.


Tom4Uhere's photo
Thu 01/12/17 05:14 AM
Virgin/Boring

Seems to me you are implying that since you didn't give her lovin she said you were boring. She is being selfish.

This is what most of the women complain about with most men. All she seems to want is sex from you.

If you are looking for a relationship that is not based on sex then you may want to find someone that more closely matches your search criteria. (should be pretty easy here)

I'm sure a woman here could give you more insight since they have to deal with this type of thing more than men.

Personally, I am never bored. Never really been called boring either? I have a vivid and wide imagination and I articulate my thoughts fairly well. Even sitting on the porch drinking coffee and talking is exciting. To me, life is never boring.

markc48's photo
Thu 01/12/17 07:29 PM
Maybe your really boring then.

Most guys are going to want sex in a relationship.

Otherwise wouldn't you just be friends.

markc48's photo
Thu 01/12/17 07:29 PM
Maybe your really boring then.

Most guys are going to want sex in a relationship.

Otherwise wouldn't you just be friends.

RustyKitty's photo
Thu 01/12/17 09:53 PM
just because you are a 'virgin',... doesn't mean you can't do 'other things'.. if ya know what I mean..
or maybe you are a bad conversationalist ?

no photo
Fri 01/13/17 05:43 AM
Not much to do on a date if you're a virgin...I guess you could go to dinner and a movie...or a casino.

Duttoneer's photo
Sat 01/14/17 03:19 AM

Some women just want to be continuously entertained, never content with a quiet moment, if your GF often comes out with statements like that your best course of action is to move on in my opinion. There is another potential GF out there for you who will not find you boring, and certainly more content in your company.