There's the lady that I've worked with for about four years. I was never really attracted to her, until maybe about a week ago, out of nowhere. We never talk or anything, the usual hi and bye, but that's about all.

The weird thing about it is that nothing has changed to make me attracted to her, yet I have been thinking about her alot lately.

Usually if I'm not attracted to someone within the first few minutes of meeting them, I'm not attracted to them ever.

I know that if two people are friends, that friendship could evolve into a relationship, and co-workers can become friends (obviously), but if two people are just co-workers, and never become friends, can an attraction just "pop-up" like that?

Is it that I'm actually interested in her, or maybe it's just something else?

No, I think there is a serious problem here.

me thinks that someone is ( ooooh you so horrnnneeeyyy ooh you so horney) take a cold shower totage. then drink many, many beers,lol.

maybe its sumthin like freud wud say...sum unconscious issue thats manifested itself causing you to think you're attracted to her when its actually sumthin totally diff...jus a thought...

That's what I'm thinkin Maxx, I just needed to confirm it.

In order to diagnois this problem we need to know if she wore sexy clothing on this day?

LOL, just the usual work uniform.

@Mild_Intensity

Freud? No! This has nothing to do with me and my mom

So whats wrong with being attracted to someone at work? Even if you never were before, people do change and maybe your not looking for the same qualities you used to. This could be a good thing!

mry, that could be, I never really thought about it like that yet.

I say buy her a rose and see where things go! Good luck to you. I wish someone liked me at work!

see where it leads you and don't get drunk you will want her more

A rose would be a good idea. Maybe with a little note?

What are you going to write in the note??

awww you could tell her how lovely she looks today!

get your self a girlfreind have sex adn you wont need to dream about your coworker

soldier, his coworker could be his girlfriend!

@ myr

hmm i don't know. Maybe something like "Dear Darla, I hate your stinking guts. You make me vomit. You're scum between my toes! Love, Alfalfa. "

thats a horrible letter lol

I'll write it for you!

Nah, I think I'll just tell her that I like her, and see if she wants to do anything. Not a date or anything, just something to see where things go maybe.

Totage, let your romantic side run wild!