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Topic: Open relationships
mrosebro's photo
Sat 11/17/07 04:52 PM

She hasn't mentioned what he wants to do, but if it is not within her boundaries it simply isn't. I agree with mrosebro. I don't think he'll stick around, unless he gets past whatever it is he wants her to do....or she gives in.
You guys just may not be sexually compatible, and should go your separate ways to avoid complicating the situation further.


exactly

no photo
Sat 11/17/07 04:52 PM

Well it is all my idea he is totally against it and wants me to just give in to his needs... But i told him to find someone else if he could not deal with things as they are.


it may work for a while, but if he can find someone to do what he wants he will move on.
Don't sell yourself short.
You may meet a guy that will take you just the way you are...
As for sharing.
I will share all, but my guy is where I draw the line...

Just my 2 cents

mrosebro's photo
Sat 11/17/07 04:54 PM
ok yea you were unclear... in which case, i see it as you are trying to be a player, and you don't want to be faithfull, and i know one thing, i sure as hell wouldn't stick around if i was your guy.... not to be offensive, but any self respecting person who wants an honest relationship, wants a CLOSED relationship... open relationships just allow for bad things to end up happening

Twitch's photo
Sat 11/17/07 04:55 PM
No I would not want an "open relationship". I don't share; if you can't commitment to someone why be in a relationship at all.

glitterybee's photo
Sat 11/17/07 04:55 PM

No I would not want an "open relationship". I don't share; if you can't commitment to someone why be in a relationship at all.



amen sister. laugh

TongueKISS's photo
Sat 11/17/07 05:07 PM
Like I said if he wants to leave oh well... I know why we are all on this site and it ain't because we have the answers, at some point we all share a partner and sometimes we have no idea. who knows i might change my mind after i try it but for now it is just for a trial basis to see the other side of things. I have made up mind and only wanted to hear your point of view for your life... i was not asking for advice only a personal opinion on how you feel about open relationships. I am talking to those who think i wanted advice.

beachdog50's photo
Sat 11/17/07 05:22 PM
hey if thats what makes you happy more power to you.. not for me though one woman man here

TongueKISS's photo
Sat 11/17/07 05:24 PM
thanks for your replies

FAK's photo
Sat 11/17/07 06:23 PM
If it's open can you really call it a relationship?

TongueKISS's photo
Sat 11/17/07 06:49 PM
Yes any person that is in your life you have a relationship with them right?

FAK's photo
Sat 11/17/07 06:55 PM
If you want to use the term ambiguosly than yes you are correct. However in my experience, not that I am an expert, seems most people tend to use that word to describe something exclusivly between two people. The 'open' relationship rarely succeeds, but...whatever floats your boat. Just communicate, openly.

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