Topic: Treating other with respect
lucigalati's photo
Sat 04/22/17 10:28 AM
How do you answer in a nice way in order to refuse a guy you find no match with as far as height, interests, etc without offending?

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Sat 04/22/17 10:29 AM
Just tell not interested :) if that doesn't work then blockkkkk

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Sat 04/22/17 10:31 AM
Some people do not understand nice. Just say what you want to say and move on.

soufiehere's photo
Sat 04/22/17 10:33 AM

How do you answer in a nice way in order to refuse a guy you find no match with as far as height, interests, etc without offending?
Here is something I have used:
Thank you for the interest.
Best of luck in finding someone who suits you,
and vice versa :-)

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Sat 04/22/17 11:08 AM
Just tell him he's not your type. If he's got anything about him he'll appreciate the honesty instead of bullchit.

lucigalati's photo
Sat 04/22/17 11:13 AM


How do you answer in a nice way in order to refuse a guy you find no match with as far as height, interests, etc without offending?
Here is something I have used:
Thank you for the interest.
Best of luck in finding someone who suits you,
and vice versa :-)

I think this would work the best and would not sound offending, especially with a smile at the end. Thank you.

lucigalati's photo
Sat 04/22/17 11:35 AM
That's what I say, and then the next one comes "what's your Snapchat/KIK ID, your phone number, we can be just friends...

krissy55101's photo
Sat 04/22/17 11:38 AM

That's what I say, and then the next one comes "what's your Snapchat/KIK ID, your phone number, we can be just friends...


That's when I use the "block" button.

I have 4 pages of guys who I blocked.

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Sat 04/22/17 11:52 AM

How do you answer in a nice way in order to refuse a guy you find no match with as far as height, interests, etc without offending?


Tell him that you really like him and that it would be nice to have a man around that doesn't die suddenly

Ask him to meet you at your parole officers building,.. that you gist have to have the ankle bracelet data downloaded.. won't take long and that you can then have coffee and chat after that.

mysticalview21's photo
Sat 04/22/17 12:27 PM

How do you answer in a nice way in order to refuse a guy you find no match with as far as height, interests, etc without offending?



I have said we don't have the same interests or lives to far away ...
friends to chat with in here but do not expect anything else ...

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Sat 04/22/17 02:22 PM
Just be yourself and honest, if that doesn't work, then, block his a.. :blush:

soufiehere's photo
Sat 04/22/17 03:18 PM

I think this would work the best and would not sound offending, especially with a smile at the end. Thank you.

You can learn more about a guy when he is rejected,
than by anything he proffers prior to that.

And they will turn on you, no matter how polite you are.
I tried for a long time to reply to all but after some
hideously vile replies I stopped altogether.

That IS a reply :-)

RustyKitty's photo
Sat 04/22/17 07:53 PM

How do you answer in a nice way in order to refuse a guy you find no match with as far as height, interests, etc without offending?

You say: "I am not the one you are looking for.. good luck in your search."
end of story..
:banana:

technovative's photo
Sat 04/22/17 08:19 PM
I follow the example set for me by a courteous woman that I reached out to on another site some years back. She thanked me for reaching out, indicated she didn't think we were a match, and closed with "I hope you find what you seek." I thanked her and wished her well in her search.

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Sat 04/22/17 08:28 PM


How do you answer in a nice way in order to refuse a guy you find no match with as far as height, interests, etc without offending?


Tell him that you really like him and that it would be nice to have a man around that doesn't die suddenly

Ask him to meet you at your parole officers building,.. that you gist have to have the ankle bracelet data downloaded.. won't take long and that you can then have coffee and chat after that.
I am crying rofl rofl rofl