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Topic: Keeping things casual..
no1phD's photo
Tue 07/11/17 06:28 PM

What a difference a day or week can make ... no.1 .. anything you would like to tell us biggrin :angel: tongue2 waving how are your workmates getting on with their dilemma :laugh laugh
.. reminds me of that song What A Difference A Day Makes what a difference lalalala
.lol.. nope don't have much to say..lol

Annierooroo's photo
Tue 07/11/17 06:32 PM
I think be honest from the start
Say what you intentions are then the other person can decide if they want that or not.


no photo
Thu 07/13/17 09:50 PM
I don't think it will work out. You have to be committed and contented. I guess that's the main goal. This may run but not for long, i mean like if you are wishing for a solid and lasting relationship, it wont work.

meetnottext's photo
Sun 07/30/17 11:44 PM
Either you are a real grown up, a real mature adult, and you take complete responsibility for your choices and your actions, or you are NOT a true mature adult, and you skulk around and play games and lie, and try to blame "society" or the other person.

Interacting with other human beings romantically is serious business. What's actually described above, is a situation where guys are just pretending to be grownups, and are saying something like "I don't wanna tell her the TRUTH, because they I might not get what I want from her."

Zero honor to be found in this kind of thinking and behavior.

If you want to "date casually," and you also want to be a man of honor, then you will accept ALL of what comes as a result of that choice of yours, as completely your responsibility. Fun and unpleasant alike.

This is the perfect answer!

no photo
Wed 08/02/17 01:56 AM
i guess some are not really happy just being with one person. it would be fair to inform the other party about it and give him/her the option to date or not. at my age i would be happy to be with The One rather than waste time with anyone and keeping it casual is ok as long as there would be the possibility of progression. just my thoughts

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