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that is the question  if you have a history of being fooled would that justify being very difficult to convince? specifically in relationships...your heart has been broken way too many times. you have to be extra cautious right? do we wait before believing again or jut through the whole process again till we hit the jackpot  As the saying goes,"once bitten, twice shy". Men and women both have instinct reaction to withdraw or shy away from things that have caused them the pain. Being cautious is normal for people who had been hurt from the past and doesn't want to get hurt or fooled again. It would take some time to convince someone to believe that your feelings is real, you gotta work on building trust for someone to believe and fall in love again.  dolphin thats true i just wish there is like an easier way to know.'like the way they talk or when they cant look you in the eye or they smile in a certain way or they say the same things like hey you or waz up or something  just outrageous thinking here ok dont mean to say anything offensive   walk the talk kind of guy?  they are rare species nowadays  men usually have sweet tongues, they love to use flowery words to lure women, I'm not saying all are, okay? There may be few existing try to look for the nearly extinct specy and trust your instincts, usually women have this gut instinct and if you feel something uncomfortable, trust your instincts... Run as fast as you can!!! kidding aside, we all have a gift of discernment, give chance to others, they are not all the same... Let them prove their worth and only then you will know .....and maybe you can sing the . .... I GOT LUCKY! i should be so lucky in love
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that is the question if you have a history of being fooled would that justify being very difficult to convince? specifically in relationships...your heart has been broken way too many times. you have to be extra cautious right? do we wait before believing again or jut through the whole process again till we hit the jackpot As the saying goes,"once bitten, twice shy". Men and women both have instinct reaction to withdraw or shy away from things that have caused them the pain. Being cautious is normal for people who had been hurt from the past and doesn't want to get hurt or fooled again. It would take some time to convince someone to believe that your feelings is real, you gotta work on building trust for someone to believe and fall in love again. dolphin thats true i just wish there is like an easier way to know.'like the way they talk or when they cant look you in the eye or they smile in a certain way or they say the same things like hey you or waz up or something just outrageous thinking here ok dont mean to say anything offensive walk the talk kind of guy? they are rare species nowadays men usually have sweet tongues, they love to use flowery words to lure women, I'm not saying all are, okay? There may be few existing try to look for the nearly extinct specy and trust your instincts, usually women have this gut instinct and if you feel something uncomfortable, trust your instincts... Run as fast as you can!!! kidding aside, we all have a gift of discernment, give chance to others, they are not all the same... Let them prove their worth and only then you will know .....and maybe you can sing the . .... I GOT LUCKY! i should be so lucky in love Sceptical, maybe we should just sing this song together and keep on dreaming, indeed we can just imagine as there is no complications I Should Be So Lucky" [1a:] In my imagination There is no complication I dream about you all the time In my mind a celebration The sweetest of sensation Thinking you could be mine [1b:] In my imagination There is no hesitation We walk together hand in hand I'm dreaming You fell in love with me Like I'm in love with you But dreaming's all I do If only they'd come true [CHORUS:] I should be so lucky Lucky lucky lucky I should be so lucky in love I should be so lucky Lucky lucky lucky I should be so lucky in love [2a:] It's a crazy situation You always keep me waiting Because its only make believe And I would come a-running To give you all my loving If one day you would notice me [2b:] My heart is close to breaking And I can't go on faking The fantasy that you'll be mine I'm dreaming That you're in love with me Like I'm in love with you But dreaming's all I do If only they'd come true [CHORUS:] [BRIDGE:] I should be so lucky (so lucky, so lucky) I should be so lucky I, I, (I, I) I should be so lucky (so lucky, so lucky) I should be so lucky I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I [1b:] [CHORUS:] [repeat & fade] |
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dolphin
 i would love to sing with you... till we get lucky
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Edited by
Funzy65
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Fri 06/02/17 09:41 PM
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I find this to be INTRIGUING, CHALLENGING, and somehow CONTROVERSIAL.
Obviously for some.  But NOT, if we DEEPLY look at it from our inside, and/or, compare it with our experiences in life. WARNING !!..Some need to read it few times to get it 
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Did you mean the same person with the same games , or the new person play the same games ? both Well , If it applies to both situations, the former one is easy to deal, Trash him without any second thoughts. lol yeah i agree ..new person situations are harder. like fee fie foe fum For the Second situation, it is very personal. It really depends on what you value the most and your faith in. problem is sometimes they would mold their personality into what they think would work to make the girl fall for them ..., should we try and do the opposite then? would saying : i like a lying obnoxious,insensitive guy, help in a way that the opposite of this guy comes along and figure out this is not what you really want Wow... heavy appetite, soulmate ;) |
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lol
you think so? its not too much to ask 
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I wasted o many years letting my fear of men impede my wish of forming a good relationship.
Don't lose time letting fear hold you back |
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I find this to be INTRIGUING, CHALLENGING, and somehow CONTROVERSIAL. Obviously for some. But NOT, if we DEEPLY look at it from our inside, and/or, compare it with our experiences in life. WARNING !!..Some need to read it few times to get it this i have to check on the website coz it doesn't show here in the mobile app
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I wasted o many years letting my fear of men impede my wish of forming a good relationship. Don't lose time letting fear hold you back i will remember that advice too ana
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Edited by
Funzy65
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Fri 06/02/17 10:53 PM
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I wasted o many years letting my fear of men impede my wish of forming a good relationship. Don't lose time letting fear hold you back i will remember that advice too ana ***************************************** I BELIEVE she, " Ana " is right I've learned that fear limits you and your vision. It serves as blinders to what may be just a few steps down the road for you. The journey is valuable, but believing in your talents, your abilities, and your self-worth can empower you to walk down an even brighter path. Transforming fear into freedom - how great is that? |
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I wasted o many years letting my fear of men impede my wish of forming a good relationship. Don't lose time letting fear hold you back i will remember that advice too ana ***************************************** I BELIEVE she, " Ana " is right I've learned that fear limits you and your vision. It serves as blinders to what may be just a few steps down the road for you. The journey is valuable, but believing in your talents, your abilities, and your self-worth can empower you to walk down an even brighter path. Transforming fear into freedom - how great is that? fear into freedom hhhhmmm would it be like we talk to people and see their true colors and then just hit block?
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funzy...that mist poem was very profound i think ill have to dig deeper into myself to be able to do that. from what i do understand is sometimes its good to trust with our hearts and not our minds...sense in the dark and not get blinded by the light... accept that days turn into nights as there is always another day and a different way it unfolds
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I find this to be INTRIGUING, CHALLENGING, and somehow CONTROVERSIAL. Obviously for some. But NOT, if we DEEPLY look at it from our inside, and/or, compare it with our experiences in life. WARNING !!..Some need to read it few times to get it thanks
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saw this in twitter : all a woman needs is just one man who can prove that they are not all the same
not promising anything to play safe does not count
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that is the question if you have a history of being fooled would that justify being very difficult to convince? specifically in relationships...your heart has been broken way too many times. you have to be extra cautious right? do we wait before believing again or jut through the whole process again till we hit the jackpot |
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I wasted o many years letting my fear of men impede my wish of forming a good relationship. Don't lose time letting fear hold you back i will remember that advice too ana ***************************************** I BELIEVE she, " Ana " is right I've learned that fear limits you and your vision. It serves as blinders to what may be just a few steps down the road for you. The journey is valuable, but believing in your talents, your abilities, and your self-worth can empower you to walk down an even brighter path. Transforming fear into freedom - how great is that? fear into freedom hhhhmmm would it be like we talk to people and see their true colors and then just hit block? *************************************** No, hell not, don't hit block, hit green light
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funzy...that mist poem was very profound i think ill have to dig deeper into myself to be able to do that. from what i do understand is sometimes its good to trust with our hearts and not our minds...sense in the dark and not get blinded by the light... accept that days turn into nights as there is always another day and a different way it unfolds ******************************************* ..ATTA GIRL |
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Edited by
Funzy65
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Sat 06/03/17 12:03 AM
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saw this in twitter : all a woman needs is just one man who can prove that they are not all the same not promising anything to play safe does not count ************************************ Promises are just promises most of the time I personally DON'T PROMISE, I PLAN Remember that,... DOGS who BARK a lots, DON'T BAIT. Is the ones who don't bark much to watch
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saw this in twitter : all a woman needs is just one man who can prove that they are not all the same not promising anything to play safe does not count ************************************ Promises are just promises most of the time I personally DON'T PROMISE, I PLAN Remember that,... DOGS who BARK a lots, DON'T BAIT. Is the ones who don't bark much to watch that is the very reason why im afraid of dogs i got bitten by a small dog who didnt even barked a warning.
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saw this in twitter : all a woman needs is just one man who can prove that they are not all the same not promising anything to play safe does not count ************************************ Promises are just promises most of the time I personally DON'T PROMISE, I PLAN Remember that,... DOGS who BARK a lots, DON'T BAIT. Is the ones who don't bark much to watch that is the very reason why im afraid of dogs i got bitten by a small dog who didnt even barked a warning. and yes speaks true of what you just said so what was your plan
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