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how does a man prove specifically here in online dating that they are REALLY sincere and would they even want to
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Edited by
Funzy65
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Sat 06/03/17 12:19 AM
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saw this in twitter : all a woman needs is just one man who can prove that they are not all the same  not promising anything to play safe does not count ************************************ Promises are just promises most of the time  I personally DON'T PROMISE, I PLAN Remember that,... DOGS who BARK a lots, DON'T BAIT. Is the ones who don't bark much to watch that is the very reason why im afraid of dogs i got bitten by a small dog who didnt even barked a warning.  and yes speaks true of what you just said so what was your plan  ***************************************** Now that is hard 4 ME to guess which plan you R interested in...  My whole life is a 763 pages book, ( Unfinished yet  ) and had many many plans  Which one you want to know ??...LOL  |
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saw this in twitter : all a woman needs is just one man who can prove that they are not all the same not promising anything to play safe does not count ************************************ Promises are just promises most of the time I personally DON'T PROMISE, I PLAN Remember that,... DOGS who BARK a lots, DON'T BAIT. Is the ones who don't bark much to watch that is the very reason why im afraid of dogs i got bitten by a small dog who didnt even barked a warning. and yes speaks true of what you just said so what was your plan ***************************************** Now that is hard 4 ME to guess which plan you R interested in... My whole life is a 763 pages book, ( Unfinished yet ) and had many many plans Which one you want to know ??...LOL  yes its just me here nobody else will know you can start with page 800?
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saw this in twitter : all a woman needs is just one man who can prove that they are not all the same not promising anything to play safe does not count ************************************ Promises are just promises most of the time I personally DON'T PROMISE, I PLAN Remember that,... DOGS who BARK a lots, DON'T BAIT. Is the ones who don't bark much to watch that is the very reason why im afraid of dogs i got bitten by a small dog who didnt even barked a warning. and yes speaks true of what you just said so what was your plan ***************************************** Now that is hard 4 ME to guess which plan you R interested in... My whole life is a 763 pages book, ( Unfinished yet ) and had many many plans Which one you want to know ??...LOL yes its just me here nobody else will know you can start with page 800? ********************************************** At page 764 I had to stop and sing ..La la la Tra la la  The Future is not for me to see.... Que Sera Sera
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yes... what will be ... will be
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hi
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Fool me once....shame on you
Fool me twice...shame on me As a three time loser I still believe... 
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Fool me once....shame on you Fool me twice...shame on me As a three time loser I still believe... you dont lose when you learn
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that is the question  if you have a history of being fooled would that justify being very incedifficult to conv? specifically in relationships...your heart has been broken way too many times. you have to be extra cautious right? do we wait before believing again or jut through the whole process again till we hit the jackpot yes-> in some cases ... difficulty to convince ... |
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that is the question if you have a history of being fooled would that justify being very incedifficult to conv? specifically in relationships...your heart has been broken way too many times. you have to be extra cautious right? do we wait before believing again or jut through the whole process again till we hit the jackpot yes-> in some cases ... difficulty to convince ... yes and men who understands this are the ones in shining armor ... sort of more determined and serious to go into battle  does not give up that easily
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how does a man prove specifically here in online dating that they are REALLY sincere and would they even want to Hi skeptical  Whether online or offline, a person shows their sincerity by the consistency of their actions which you need months to observe. The truth of who someone is lies in what they consistsntly DO. The things they SAY are only meaningful if they line up with what they do. Being skeptical only becomes unhealthy when you continue to question your mate's ntegrity even after you observed over time that their words and actions are lining up with your understamding of love |
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Edited by
Tom4Uhere
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Mon 06/05/17 06:44 AM
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that is the question if you have a history of being fooled would that justify being very difficult to convince? specifically in relationships...your heart has been broken way too many times. you have to be extra cautious right? do we wait before believing again or jut through the whole process again till we hit the jackpot I'm gullible and trusting. Just the opposite of being skeptical. Once I learn I am being fooled my wisdom prevents it from continuing or happening again. I understand that everyone is different. I try to let others be themselves. I try to live in the current moment. I know that assigning my expectations to someone else results in failure. I have a behavior associative memory. Time is required to reflect on the lessons learned. Time and reflection builds wisdom. Wisdom allows me to enter into a new relationship with armor. Self-understanding and emotional maturity lets me experience others as they are, not as I expect them to be. My love is not shared lightly but when it is shared I share it readily and completely. Every time. Edit for spelling and punctuation. |
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how does a man prove specifically here in online dating that they are REALLY sincere and would they even want to Hi skeptical Whether online or offline, a person shows their sincerity by the consistency of their actions which you need months to observe. The truth of who someone is lies in what they consistsntly DO. The things they SAY are only meaningful if they line up with what they do. Being skeptical only becomes unhealthy when you continue to question your mate's ntegrity even after you observed over time that their words and actions are lining up with your understamding of love hello peggy when there is mutual love and respect i do believe i should not be skeptical. thanks
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that is the question if you have a history of being fooled would that justify being very difficult to convince? specifically in relationships...your heart has been broken way too many times. you have to be extra cautious right? do we wait before believing again or jut through the whole process again till we hit the jackpot I'm gullible and trusting. Just the opposite of being skeptical. Once I learn I am being fooled my wisdom prevents it from continuing or happening again. I understand that everyone is different. I try to let others be themselves. I try to live in the current moment. I know that assigning my expectations to someone else results in failure. I have a behavior associative memory. Time is required to reflect on the lessons learned. Time and reflection builds wisdom. Wisdom allows me to enter into a new relationship with armor. Self-understanding and emotional maturity lets me experience others as they are, not as I expect them to be. My love is not shared lightly but when it is shared I share it readily and completely. Every time. Edit for spelling and punctuation. i do believe you are one of those men who women do believe in. we need more guys like you around
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Sometimes you have look in the mirror and ask yourself why do I find myself attracted to the wrong type of guy? I truly believe there are many more good men that bad.
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Sometimes you have look in the mirror and ask yourself why do I find myself attracted to the wrong type of guy? I truly believe there are many more good men that bad. maybe the right guys are just not attracted to me
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that is the question if you have a history of being fooled would that justify being very difficult to convince? specifically in relationships...your heart has been broken way too many times. you have to be extra cautious right? do we wait before believing again or jut through the whole process again till we hit the jackpot It is okay to be a bit more careful. But if you aren't able to open your heart again, you will not find love. You have to have the guts to dare to be vulnerable again otherwise you'll guaranteed get hurt again. May sound odd, but law of attraction --> If you're afraid to open up because you are still convinced you'll get hurt again, that's exactly what you will attract. If you are convinced all/most men are a-holes, that's exactly what you'll attract. If you've healed yourself and are able and willing and ballsy enough to open your heart and take the risk to get hurt because you won't settle for less than love... than you stand a very high chance of finding it. Getting to that point may take time, you got to heal yourself up to the point that you simply know, feel, sense in your bones that love does exist, that good men do exist (plenty of them around!), that you are worthy of love. If you're there, then you'll find it. |
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that is the question if you have a history of being fooled would that justify being very difficult to convince? specifically in relationships...your heart has been broken way too many times. you have to be extra cautious right? do we wait before believing again or jut through the whole process again till we hit the jackpot It is okay to be a bit more careful. But if you aren't able to open your heart again, you will not find love. You have to have the guts to dare to be vulnerable again otherwise you'll guaranteed get hurt again. May sound odd, but law of attraction --> If you're afraid to open up because you are still convinced you'll get hurt again, that's exactly what you will attract. If you are convinced all/most men are a-holes, that's exactly what you'll attract. If you've healed yourself and are able and willing and ballsy enough to open your heart and take the risk to get hurt because you won't settle for less than love... than you stand a very high chance of finding it. Getting to that point may take time, you got to heal yourself up to the point that you simply know, feel, sense in your bones that love does exist, that good men do exist (plenty of them around!), that you are worthy of love. If you're there, then you'll find it. I agree with Crystal, very nice input  |
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i think i believe too much
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how does a man prove specifically here in online dating that they are REALLY sincere and would they even want to Sincerity comes with consistency and persistence. If you don't feel this in his actions, let your gut instinct or discernment do the trick  but some men are really good at fooling women then it's a bit hard to know. But how will you know the truth if you don't try, how can you make yourself believe someone if you don't open up your heart? Being vulnerable doesn't mean that you believe everything you see or heard, let your heart and mind decide. Opening your heart means let yourself be vulnerable by taking the risk to believe or fall in love again to see if it's real or not. If it doesn't work,it's ok, at least you tried. But if you close your heart and mind to the possibilities then you will never have the courage to take a step forward and have the chance to find love again. 
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