Topic: how to break the ice
Rajab78's photo
Tue 07/18/17 04:22 PM
I sometimes want to say something when I see a beautiful girl but my toung gets all tied up what should say

soufiehere's photo
Tue 07/18/17 04:28 PM

Don't talk, hand her a note.
"I get tongue-tied around beautiful women..hello."

Beachfarmer's photo
Tue 07/18/17 04:34 PM


Don't talk, hand her a note.
"I get tongue-tied around beautiful women..hello."


Brilliant

Tom4Uhere's photo
Tue 07/18/17 04:50 PM
Edited by Tom4Uhere on Tue 07/18/17 04:50 PM
The first task is to determine if she is comprised entirely of ICE.
Try chipping a small bit and see if there is a woman in there to begin with.

Awatersign's photo
Tue 07/18/17 06:45 PM
Edited by Awatersign on Tue 07/18/17 06:47 PM
Something general works wonders,simple as the the weather or just what's going on around at the time,example,your in line at the grocery store,the line is moving pretty slow,you could be like,aw man,this line is moving really slow,she may be like,I know right,(ice broken ),or say you're both at a takeaway getting food,could start over the order,hey,that looks great,never had that before,how is it? Simple stuff like that!

Bellagomez112's photo
Tue 07/18/17 06:48 PM
Hello

Awatersign's photo
Tue 07/18/17 06:50 PM
Hi blondeywaving

Beachfarmer's photo
Tue 07/18/17 06:50 PM

Taos beach on the shoulder .. and hands him a note ...

Hi .. my tongue is tied .. are you any good at mimes laugh laugh laugh :thumbsup: waving


waving Tongue tied as well, but have become accomplished at puppetry bigsmile

Awatersign's photo
Tue 07/18/17 07:10 PM


Hi blondeywaving
hi cutie .. welcome home .. just saw you on another thread biggrin waving
Thank you,yall still my family lolflowerforyou drinks drinks waving

Tom4Uhere's photo
Wed 07/19/17 08:16 AM
Perhaps you should try a warm smile and a tender, sincere word. Sometimes it is better to melt the ice than to break it by force.

no photo
Wed 07/19/17 08:26 AM
When I saw the headlines of this post I immediately thought "hammer "or "ice pick "
But I don't think you'll get away with that one! laugh
I'd go with tom. A sweet smile and try say a warm Hello, if she responds then the ice is broken and you may not get in a pickle.
Good luck waving

no photo
Sat 07/22/17 05:01 AM
Have a look at the 'pick up lines' thread mate

Guaranteed results.

no photo
Sat 07/22/17 05:07 AM
:thumbsup:

Basha's photo
Sat 07/22/17 06:47 AM

I sometimes want to say something when I see a beautiful girl but my toung gets all tied up what should say

Me too...so I just speak any word that comes to my mind and yeah, it's pretty awkward... especially when I don't remember what I just said~

IgorFrankensteen's photo
Sat 07/22/17 11:14 AM
Now that it's too late for me to use it, I've realized that the real reason for "lines," is to give a person some sense of confidence.

Lines are like placebos in that way. It's not what you say that really matters (as long as it isn't too gross, or too intensely stupid), it's the fact that you can say it calmly that matters.

The reason why a given line "works," is because the person you say it to, was already going to say yes. If they were already going to say "not if you were the Prince of Wonder," the best line in the world wont matter.

Tom4Uhere's photo
Sat 07/22/17 01:28 PM

Now that it's too late for me to use it, I've realized that the real reason for "lines," is to give a person some sense of confidence.

Lines are like placebos in that way. It's not what you say that really matters (as long as it isn't too gross, or too intensely stupid), it's the fact that you can say it calmly that matters.

The reason why a given line "works," is because the person you say it to, was already going to say yes. If they were already going to say "not if you were the Prince of Wonder," the best line in the world wont matter.

Agree^

The trepidation that people feel has a lot to do with your own self-esteem. Most people would not have a problem talking to a teenager on the street but when we build someone up above our own level of respect we plave more value on the encounter that is actually justified.

It is easier to talk "Down" to someone than it is to talk "Up" to someone.

One thing to remember is that all people are unique but they are all people just the same. You cut them they bleed. They will die someday too. They all have to go to the bathroom, just like you.
The only thing that could make them better than you is your impression of them.

I don't feel above or below anyone. I am different, yes, but that is it. It gives me confidence. I know that if I am rejected it is not a defect in me but that person's personal choice. We all have defects. There is no "Perfect Person".