Are you looking for love or money ? Would you go out with a man/woman who is unemployed ?

I inly care if the man can hold his own. I raised 1 child (financially, emotionally, etc) not doing it again for a grown man. If they are unemployed, fine but I won't pay for everything

Yellowrose,

That is the exact approach my sister took

It all depends why he is unemployed? If he fell on hard times and in between jobs ect not a problem... As long as he is trying...

Now if he is not working cause he don't want too that is a different story...

I believe in working and paying my own way... and pretty much expect that from anyone I'm around...

Honestly I'm not looking for either one... but money sure would be nice at my age...

But then I would not walk away from either~~

I like women when they are dirt poor.

if he was independently wealthy and unemployed, sure, why not.

All about this is the lust of the flesh

Well, if you're just handing them out, then right now I'll take money.
I don't have enough room in the fridge for love.


Neither?
Money is something I earn by selling my labor and/or using my skills.
Love is a bonding process as a side effect of the mating instinct.

So, not really "looking for" either like a lost set of keys.


If they lived locally, I found them attractive, and they actually wanted to date rather than sit online and chat or text, then sure.
"Go out" isn't much of a commitment.
I can go out with them once, and then decide whether or not I want to do that again.

Would I commit to some sort of ongoing relationship with some hypothetical person I know nothing about except that they were unemployed? Or maybe after getting an email or seeing a profile where they say something banal and inane like "Get to know me, I'm a good person, I have a good heart."
No.