Topic: If You Really Want to Get to Know a Person
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Fri 11/10/17 06:29 AM
Edited by SunshineLadybug on Fri 11/10/17 06:33 AM
I'm not really a question person, I don't ask you questions it's just not in my nature: Scorpios love a trillion Questions, Capricorns will drive you crazy with Questions, But to ask Questions one learns about the other: did I stereotype? YES! yes, I did, My son! and a grandchild.

"Why Do you want to get married", I miss being in love being a wife.

"Why are you looking after 13yrs" are they the same questions? So many things a person can ask another person. Because my children are adults and have family's, I have devoted my entire life to them. I have never had a Life of My Own! and if I did I would want to spend it with a Husband!

"Why do you expect a man to not date you". The answer! (he can judge a woman by her looks, clothes, and personality) while having a cup of coffee or dinner for 1hr. he is their only to see if he can get nookie and if so he moves on to the next women). instead of who she really is, it takes time to get to know a person and dating is not the way. That is just an easy way to get a "need met" and move on to the next women. So I will not DATE!

What kind of Questions you would rather be asked then the simple uneducated, non-related, generalization questions you are sent in your mailbox that you DELETE!


1. …why…?


2. What do you find interesting?


3. What do you value most?


4. What do you find inspirational?


5. Do you have any long-term goals or dreams?

6. What brings you peace or joy?


7. What would you do with your life if you had no restrictions?


Lexia19's photo
Fri 11/10/17 06:44 AM
Is personality important to you?

Stu's photo
Fri 11/10/17 08:14 AM

Is personality important to you?


:thumbsup:

peggy122's photo
Fri 11/10/17 08:42 AM
I love all the questions you listed Ladybug :)

The challenge is maintaining a cool or even sparkling vibe while asking those questions so that it doesn't feel like an interview lol

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Fri 11/10/17 09:02 AM
I guess being a teacher for so many years and watching a lot of news and I will add in age. Got it! Noted: All Make it Funnier!

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Fri 11/10/17 09:03 AM
What kind of Questions you would rather be asked then the simple uneducated, non-related, generalization questions you are sent to your mailbox that you DELETE!


1. …why…?


2. What do you find interesting?


3. What do you value most?


4. What do you find inspirational?


5. Do you have any long-term goals or dreams?

6. What brings you peace or joy?


7. What would you do with your life if you had no restrictions?

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Fri 11/10/17 09:09 AM
If I want to get to know someone..
I just wet the tip of my finger stick it in their ear and say...HAY))).. what ya thinking about.. tell me a story...lol

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Fri 11/10/17 09:10 AM
Hummm myself if they start right off the bat with questions as mentioned above it is a instant red flag... no personality or scammer..

I prefer a natural conversation.. More like when meeting face to face...Ya know start off with hi and sure leave the conversation with a question... due to you want them to answer you and hopefully build a conversation..

Myself due to only looking locally I will bring up landmarks around the area either places to eat ect... once you get a conversation going you will find out all of the above but within a casual atmosphere. But I'm also one that I want to meet if we both seem interested asap..

I'm not playing the chatting game~~