Ladies / Gentleman: would you date a man with ED or a Man or women with any of this Illness: Crohn's, Cancer, Alzheimer's, Bi-Polar, Pid, or if he had a Terminal Illness, Would you date a Military Vet. Or a person in a wheelchair, and or limbs missing. The list is long:

Have you been married to a man or women with an illness or known anyone in your family or friends? And if so would you date or marry another women or man with the same illness? Would you ever got through that again? Most will say "HELL NO" but some will say, if I date the person and later they get it then I am fine: Add your 20cents in.

Now why did I ask this question:

1. Gary my husband who passed away in 2010, with Parkinson's he became ED in 2008, it was very hard on him who could not understand how I could love him regardless if he could not love me physically in return. He could not comprehend that "I loved him for who he was" not for how he made me feel. He had a great and funny personality so Masculant! So confident and maybe a little vain but in a good way.

2. My Stepfather developed Colon Cancer at 58yrs old ago and it changed my parent's life. For all the years my stepfather loved my mother it was a turning point for the both of them. They learned to love each other from the heart and mind instead of skin-deep. To cuddle and hold instead of sweat!

3. My Husband had a compulsive behavior, from the time he was 15 he said. Sometimes 5 to 8 if not more times a day. It was because of a hernia he had as a child the doctor said. The tightness needed to disappear. I know it made me feel less than in the 18yrs. One chooses one over the other was hard and having both just left nothing for a wife.

4. My Uncle married his High School Sweetheart the only women he ever loved. After she gave birth to his son, she developed "MS" and 3 years later became a Diabetic. For the next (1950 they got married- she died 2006 =56yrs) This wonderful man took the best of all care of his wife... The greatest man I have known to love a wife and be so dedicated. But I do want to mention this: His wife loved him so much she let him have a mistress on the side) for 30yrs this mistress waited for my Uncle and in 2006 he married her just 3months after my aunt's death. This was Pure Love! Devotion to Two Women! His son never had children in fear of passing on the genes so he married his elementary /high school girlfriend and made her his wife they adopted children instead.

5. My grandfather had Emphysema, he in ran a laundromat and the lent filled his lungs. for 30yr + years my grandmother took care of him and gave him a great life till the end. 1919 to 1976

6. While running a daycare center out of my house, I had a mother who was a nurse, she met this man who was diagnosed with Brain Cancer he was only 28yrs old. The Man's only wish was to have a wife and child. This lovely lady made that happen for him, She married him 3 weeks later and 9months later had his child. I was blessed to also have their child, the child had water on the brain, and could not walk or talk or hear. It was a gamble but you never know until a child is born. This wonderful lady loved her husband until the end, he died in 2007. They got 4yrs together.

Two of my uncles died of brain cancer they both worked at (Mc‎Donald Douglas Aircraft: ‎Santa Monica, California‎) they started at the same time and died within months from each other. The wifes were twins. both my aunts.

I cannot think of anyone I have ever dated about whom I inquired
firstly about their health.

When love is in play, it trumps, for me.

Furthermore, we all have some terminal thing going on inside of
us, life is death.

Methinks some people simply cannot face their own doom and cannot
bear to see it in others.

I think they probably miss a lot.

67.3 million people — 63 percent of the population — had a disability

While there are only 40,956 people in my city. give or take.

I think so many men who have disabilities do not think women would ever date them so they stay single all their lives, including women a lot of them also stay single for the same reasons.

Maybe because I am more of a stay at home women, not a traveler, I like a simple life. In the town like of life, not a lot of crowds, early bird like 4am to 9pm call it a day. its been like that as far as I can remember.

I wouldn't mind dating a man who had ED, I saw how my stepfather changed and it was amazing, he was so filled with passion in his Mind that the emotions he expressed for my mother were like no other man I have ever met, My Gary did the same thing in the end, the love they gave from the heart instead of his head had really changed us at the end. I for the first time felt how much he had loved me all those years.

I have already had that wild sxx, passed all that, it was nice he was a lover I will say that my gary, but its been 13yrs and I really, to tell the truth, don't miss it. I think because i was such a sxxual person that without it has brought out a part of me that I have no fear of staying what is on my mind, I'm an open book.

I want a man to love me for all I am not for just what he can get from me as a woman in the bedroom. I already know how creative I am in that department but to really get to know a man inside his heart I think that would be better. So many women never get to know a man or even about their own husbands because well he can only think of a night passion. I want the other side of a man the brilliant side of him, the side that shows his ability to communicate.

Maybe I am just a fool, or I saw how happy my mother became and how it changed her as a person.

you know the bible tells a man to never have sxx with a woman if he ever wants to get to know her but if he has to... HAS TO~ to create life then so be it but then end it don't let it go on or he will never fall in love with his wife.

Funny right! The brain of a stay at home mother! now Bored grandmother.

Well I wouldn't date a man..
Especially if he was already involved with Ed.... I don't do three ways..lol

Ok.. that might not be absolutely true...
The three-way thingy...j s ..

I lost a very special woman to cancer. so, yes I would. to the end we were one

very special woman.. very special relationship. I would not change that for anything

GreenEyes's


YOU ARE LOVED! XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
sssssssssssssss

we would joke abbot her losing hair.. I could care less.. it was HER I loved.. not her hair

I told her to get a Mohawk.. flip the people at work out Lol..




Loved that girl. Special woman.. the hurt was worth it.. as opposed to not knowing her.

Blondey111

SAD Commit:

So then I would have never had the greatest love of my life so far. for it was not his fault living in a hick town Mangum, Oklahoma, which only had about Population: 2,003(2006).

Being a Farm Boy all his life drinking Pure Cow's MILK getting Crohn's disease at 16teen years old. Suffering from shame and fear of death for many years.

While I had come from 5 states away to start a new life, a city girl not a country girl. A divorced wife with 2 kids ready to enter college.

I out of 3 women also became his wife. I got the best years of his they were short but I never judged him.

Then 2 years later he developed Parkinson's. I was not going to leave him "I loved him".

This man had a personality that was like nothing you have ever experienced. Why? because of his disability made him a great man. A man without FEAR! who has COURAGE!

Q. What if a Military man crossed your path but during his time in Iraq he got wounded and was destined to a wheelchair forever! But he could give you a child and love you and adore you.

You tell me? - ?That you would not date a man in a wheelchair because he has a disability.

But if and only if while he was Married to you after 3 yrs and he fell during skiing on a trip and became paralyzed from his waist down and could never give "you" children. That would be ok and you would stay with him and love him.

I have a Question: Example 1# and 2# are the same, So why did it have to be after you Married him? When the man who sits in a wheelchair deserves as much if not more Worthy then the Rich Man who went Skiing on a trip.

It amazes me how a woman thinks one is better than the other, yet both of these men wanted wonderful women to love them.

yes sure i do️️

I'm sorry you missed the point of it all: It's to be expected you still live in the (I) world. That has been created for you and many to follow in footsteps and books, and tv, and social media and music. let's not forget Doctors.

One billion people, or 15% of the world's population, experience some form of disability, and disability prevalence is higher for developing countries. One-fifth of the estimated global total, or between 110 million and 190 million people, experience significant disabilities in the USA!

I think they have the right to fall in love!

So, with that 190 million people will never get the chance to fall in love with another person.

yet 323.1 million - 190.0 million will fall in love. Good Percentage!

Too bad the World creates Sickness and disabilities, funny how one never figures it out!. But Science has it pinpointed just down to the last cell.