Topic: Do people even do this match thing?
RVT's photo
Sun 12/31/17 12:48 AM
I get so few "matches" but a ton of people that "like" me that i can't even see. I know, mingle is just trying to get me to spend some money. . .

yellowrose10's photo
Sun 12/31/17 01:26 AM
That is Mutual match. It was always designed as a fun game to connect. The upgrade was added much later to help keep this site free. You can search and view profiles, email, nudge and post in the forums for free. Don't rely on just one way. You have to put in effort

Btw....this is the rate my profile forum

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Sun 12/31/17 11:50 AM
I'd be inclined to agree about the money thing. Most of the ladies liking me are too far away. If they are not in Montgomery, Prattville, or Wetumpka, Alabama, I can't ever meet them.

yellowrose10's photo
Sun 12/31/17 11:53 AM
Edited by yellowrose10 on Sun 12/31/17 11:53 AM

I'd be inclined to agree about the money thing. Most of the ladies liking me are too far away. If they are not in Montgomery, Prattville, or Wetumpka, Alabama, I can't ever meet them.


Matches come from 2 ways
1. Generated by the site based on search criteria
2. Manually matched by members. On each profile, there is a match with button that anyone can push.

No one is asking you to spend money. I have been here since 07 and never used Mutual Match or paid a cent. Do your own search to find a connection. Don't rely on the site doing all of the work