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Topic: Why and When I Love You
Blondey111 Joined Sun 01/27/13 Posts: 8980	Thu 04/26/18 09:28 PM
"Orgasm talking" Yeah, to be taken very seriously. isn't it just usually the woman talking That's what I said too. But who knows...plenty of men who get those feelings mixed up. lmao They even ask you to marry. After or during.... it is the temporary interruption to blood flow . It floods their limbic centre and cuts of oxygen to vital reasoning areas of the brain .... that doesn't happen with women .. diamonds flash before their eyes .. I am not sure who to pity more :-)

Orchid73 Joined Tue 04/24/18 Posts: 142	Thu 04/26/18 09:32 PM Edited by Orchid73 on Thu 04/26/18 09:33 PM
diamonds flash before their eyes .. I am not sure who to pity more :-) You make a good point. I sure had my fair share of "diamonds flash before my eyes", and I didn't need to have sex for that.

Dan9787 Joined Tue 04/24/18 Posts: 56	Thu 04/26/18 10:15 PM
just think of it along the same lines as when you tell him "yes, it was good for me" hahahahahahahahahaha!

Dan9787 Joined Tue 04/24/18 Posts: 56	Thu 04/26/18 10:27 PM
Well, yes of course we could say it and mean it. If we love the woman it's going to come out easily. Men could lie, of course... The guy here never said i love you to the girl, but the guy still keeps on sending messages to the girl right after their meeting If it's not due to some issue with saying I Love you during/after (despite feeling it), then I'd wonder if he's not confusing passion with love. With passion, there has to be attraction and being aroused/stimulated sexually by your partner. If you have sex and find your love and interest for your partner waning after orgasm, it wasn't love. If you still feel love and maybe feel like you've bonded more, That's a good sign. The guy you describe, I'm not sure...he may care, like her, love her but not be wordy. If in general she feels he cares for her, is not only selfishly seeking his own pleasure, he is a good guy with her in general...he just might be ok. :)

Fervid_heart Joined Tue 04/24/18 Posts: 489	Thu 04/26/18 10:34 PM
just think of it along the same lines as when you tell him "yes, it was good for me" hahahahahahahahahaha! It was good for me.

mhavic1573 Joined Sun 10/30/16 Posts: 1746	Fri 04/27/18 01:54 AM
Well, yes of course we could say it and mean it. If we love the woman it's going to come out easily. Men could lie, of course... The guy here never said i love you to the girl, but the guy still keeps on sending messages to the girl right after their meeting If it's not due to some issue with saying I Love you during/after (despite feeling it), then I'd wonder if he's not confusing passion with love. With passion, there has to be attraction and being aroused/stimulated sexually by your partner. If you have sex and find your love and interest for your partner waning after orgasm, it wasn't love. If you still feel love and maybe feel like you've bonded more, That's a good sign. The guy you describe, I'm not sure...he may care, like her, love her but not be wordy. If in general she feels he cares for her, is not only selfishly seeking his own pleasure, he is a good guy with her in general...he just might be ok. :) Thanks Dan

Dan9787 Joined Tue 04/24/18 Posts: 56	Fri 04/27/18 02:04 AM
just think of it along the same lines as when you tell him "yes, it was good for me" hahahahahahahahahaha! It was good for me. Same for me.

Dan9787 Joined Tue 04/24/18 Posts: 56	Fri 04/27/18 02:06 AM
Thanks Dan You're welcome. :)

Dan9787 Joined Tue 04/24/18 Posts: 56	Fri 04/27/18 02:14 AM
just think of it along the same lines as when you tell him "yes, it was good for me" hahahahahahahahahaha! It was good for me. Same for me. I know, not as believable coming from a guy...

Fervid_heart Joined Tue 04/24/18 Posts: 489	Fri 04/27/18 03:57 AM
just think of it along the same lines as when you tell him "yes, it was good for me" hahahahahahahahahaha! It was good for me. Same for me. I know, not as believable coming from a guy...

rajpalchaudhary Joined Fri 04/27/18 Posts: 1	Fri 04/27/18 03:59 AM
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Orchid73 Joined Tue 04/24/18 Posts: 142	Fri 04/27/18 07:11 AM
If it's not due to some issue with saying I Love you during/after (despite feeling it), then I'd wonder if he's not confusing passion with love. With passion, there has to be attraction and being aroused/stimulated sexually by your partner. If you have sex and find your love and interest for your partner waning after orgasm, it wasn't love. If you still feel love and maybe feel like you've bonded more, That's a good sign. The guy you describe, I'm not sure...he may care, like her, love her but not be wordy. If in general she feels he cares for her, is not only selfishly seeking his own pleasure, he is a good guy with her in general...he just might be ok. :) You're the only guy in whole Canada that I love.

scepticalsoulmate Joined Wed 08/24/16 Posts: 9737	Fri 04/27/18 11:08 PM
Is it instinctive for guys to say ILOVEYOU during/after making love or Not? How will the girl know, if there's Love? If girls don't hear it then would it just mean you are being used? This brought me back to memories of my ex husband as I don’t recall him saying those three magic words during , after or before but i was also not that vocal to him. Maybe thats why things just felt incomplete between us and he just needs to be with more than one girl. But fast forward i have heard those words spoken always during the act itself while i could see the hunger and passion of the guy i loved. The eyes never lie and the hungry piercing gaze of a man just make those words seem like an echo coming from his soul

mhavic1573 Joined Sun 10/30/16 Posts: 1746	Sat 04/28/18 12:39 AM
Is it instinctive for guys to say ILOVEYOU during/after making love or Not? How will the girl know, if there's Love? If girls don't hear it then would it just mean you are being used? This brought me back to memories of my ex husband as I don’t recall him saying those three magic words during , after or before but i was also not that vocal to him. Maybe thats why things just felt incomplete between us and he just needs to be with more than one girl. But fast forward i have heard those words spoken always during the act itself while i could see the hunger and passion of the guy i loved. The eyes never lie and the hungry piercing gaze of a man just make those words seem like an echo coming from his soul Welcome back sis how's LA?

scepticalsoulmate Joined Wed 08/24/16 Posts: 9737	Sat 04/28/18 01:35 AM
Is it instinctive for guys to say ILOVEYOU during/after making love or Not? How will the girl know, if there's Love? If girls don't hear it then would it just mean you are being used? This brought me back to memories of my ex husband as I don’t recall him saying those three magic words during , after or before but i was also not that vocal to him. Maybe thats why things just felt incomplete between us and he just needs to be with more than one girl. But fast forward i have heard those words spoken always during the act itself while i could see the hunger and passion of the guy i loved. The eyes never lie and the hungry piercing gaze of a man just make those words seem like an echo coming from his soul Welcome back sis how's LA? Hello sis. Miss you aside from jet lag LA is being good to me. Its hot in the mornings but delightfully cold in the afternoons and evenings. Hope all is well with you