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Topic: Words please
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Tue 07/31/18 08:01 PM

Maybe some people that send a nudge, aren't really that interested.


You're probably right . I mean really it's like meh I'm not interested so I nudge you for you to know for sure that I'm not interested. Lol

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Tue 07/31/18 08:50 PM




Is it really that hard to start a conversation? I mean, I don't get it why guys send nudges, wink at you or kick you in the butt instead of sending you a line or two. :thinking::thinking:


Maybe it's their way to start a conversation - waiting for the very first move or a reaction of the lady .. to see if the girl is interested enough to get in touch or not.

Could be a lack of confidence as well .. coz it's very important to start the conversation right .. to make the other party interested .. otherwise there won't be a second chance.

Or these guys have looked at your profile, but have actually no intention to go further, but being nice fellows, they leave a sign by sending a nudge that have noticed you as an attractive girl.

Personally I get nudges from the girls .. and always respond the same way .. will nudge back, which usually leads nowhere.

Starting a mutually pleasing conversation is actually complicated .. sending a line or two is not just like that .. it means you expect to get also a response .. but it happens pretty rarely, if the girl responds you the same way .. aka is ready to talk to you or start something .. usually every attempt to get someone's attention by sending a message gets zero response .. and knowing that is not encouraging enough to make you waste your time or test your luck.



Could be everything what you've said. Good point. :blush:

But what could be worst than getting nudges or winks from someone with unfilled profile and has no photo? How can a woman respond to that? :thinking:

mavis those in my opinion are just the same as the empty profile that sends the message gmail me cuz i don't have time for here. they are the trash admin tries to flush as fast as it appears


Probably, Eric. waving

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Tue 07/31/18 08:52 PM

Maybe some people that send a nudge, aren't really that interested.


But they have the time to send nudges? :thinking:

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Wed 08/01/18 08:14 PM


But they have the time to send nudges? :thinking:


Sending a nudge won't take much time .. just a one click .. but before sending it you must open the profile, and if there really is a profile then read it .. and maybe this nudge is meant to let you know that they just liked what they saw ..

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