Topic: A good father
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Sat 08/04/18 04:27 PM
I'm marriage and almost two years we living together until im pregnant still my husband not change,he is 40 years old but not mature enough to be a good father.everything come out from his mouth always negative,insulting,bullying, cursing,shouting,have no manner and attitude.i want to divorce from him but have no financial support to move out,last year I've got miscarriage cause he making me stress out.i have thought to divorce him but I don't know anyone in this country.

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Sat 08/04/18 10:32 PM
HI Alya,
I'm so sorry to hear about your situation. Your husband sounds pretty abusive and although I know how hard it is, please get out of that situation for the sake of you and your child. I have just got out of an abusive marriage and it's hard looking after 3 children on my own - and the finances are very tough - but anything is better than living in fear and being bullied every day. Where abouts do you live? There are probably some government services or charities that can help. Take care, Clare

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Sun 08/05/18 05:14 AM
Your profile says you are looking for a financially secure old man and that you do not want to work.... well, that may be hard to get with a baby on the way.

You are in Ohio?.. There are scores of state and local help groups available especially for woman would are in your bad situation. Pick up the phone and call them.

Got to tell you.. I don't buy your whole story.

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Mon 08/06/18 08:30 AM
Thank you Clare for your symphaty,GOD bless you.

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Mon 08/06/18 08:34 AM
Green eyes: yes I'm looking for an old man cause they are mature and giving comfort,not because I don't want to work I did tried to applied directly door to door nobody want to hire pregnant woman and they said I can come back to apply until baby due,don't be judgemental before you know people story and I don't need you to buy it.

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Mon 08/06/18 08:40 AM
Hello Alya where are you living currently where are you from originally? I would like to try to help if you would like to inbox me

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Mon 08/06/18 12:21 PM
@Aroundtheworld: I will...cause i need friend or someone to talk too thank you GOD bless you.

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Fri 08/17/18 01:57 AM

I'm marriage and almost two years we living together until im pregnant still my husband not change,he is 40 years old but not mature enough to be a good father.everything come out from his mouth always negative,insulting,bullying, cursing,shouting,have no manner and attitude.i want to divorce from him but have no financial support to move out,last year I've got miscarriage cause he making me stress out.i have thought to divorce him but I don't know anyone in this country.


Sounds like there may be abuse in the home. You can go to a safe house.

Call your community legal aid for help with getting a divorce without an income.

Go to your county department of job and family services for medical and food. You may also get cash assistance, but I advise against doing that here in Ohio, unless you have no other choice.

If you have history of mental issues or addiction, you can get treatment at an agency that can help with housing as long as you're in their treatment program. However, to get housing assistance you have to be homeless as in living on the street.

Call 211 for resources in your area.