is marriage or love life really that matter.? so if i dont experience such life am i missing out something 'great'? what if im not interesting enough to catch anyones eyes

Marriage and serious relationship is optional. Some people never find it Others don't desire it. Your life is a gift ,just enjoy Life.

Relax about that whole "being interesting" thing.



Just be you.

If you were Matthew McConaughey as your pic suggests, it matters as he is
happily married with children.

If you were a zombie as your profile suggests, no it doesn't because you are dead.

Maybe.
Depends on if you have babies.
Babies are your immortality.

Do you know the name of the first pharaoh?
The architect that designed the first pyramid?
The grand canal?
The empire state building?
The coliseum?
The first computer? The precursor to the internet?

Individual lives don't really matter.
Any achievements you make as an individual will be forgotten and ultimately meaningless given enough time.

The only relevance you'll ever have, the continued influence over people, existence, reality, the world, is through your children and generations.


The only real way to help guarantee your generations survive is to help provide a stable community, group, culture.
Otherwise it leads to wars and lots of people dying, including your kids.

That starts with stable relationships. Marriage, love, bonding.


Then go to school or go explore and find a path to something interesting.

Romantic love is much talked of and idealized.
However, it's the only one that exists.
Wecall have love to give that we can share in other ways while we wait for romantic love to be in our life