I have never understood this concept. I probably don't understand it cause I turn into an idiot anytime I approach someone I am attracted to. Also there is the fear of that person not being interested in me. If I were to wait how would it find me? Also sometimes I think love can be confused with strong attraction. Anyways I think I am a great catch but can't find my equal and can't figgure how she will just find me...

i believe in this as well
however i would still seek for tha one who wants tha same

eww double post
tha hell?

hmmmmmmmmm I can't help you since I am on the friends list, but I have seen love strike my friends when they least expect it........just enjoy yourself, get to know people, and when you least expect it love will happen

I am running an experiment......to see how long it will take her to find me.......It looks like she wont find me this year either...maybe next year.

:) Just don't worry about it...I have no idea really either, but I'm guessing it's kind of the same way you make friends. Although, I do have to say that I recently have just said screw it; I'm done dating...disgusted really. Last night I went to the gas station and a guy walked up to me and started talking to me; new to my town, told me I was cute and could he have my number and take me out some time. I have no hope or expectation, but....never know...maybe something good will come of it.

As a song goes. " You Can't Hurry Love " Well I guess the same can be said here, you can't rush something if noting has even happened. I guess as every body everything takes time. Maybe to much time but it's life.

dont worry... shes just play "you're hard to get" lol

Sorry my friend but if you are looking for equal you need to stay out of love and all that. Anyone who ever thought women were the weaker sex was out to lunch. I am happy to find a woman that is caring and open, I have learned how to live and love as the weaker sex. Parents always !! Equal ?? Only in our own minds.

I have been doing the same experiement...so far the guy hasn't found me. You should give this experiement up, it is a crappy one.

well, that sure would explain things, LOL

it's okay i found you

A bus will come to you if you wait.

For love, you need a map.

what is love?

Is this bus blue?

I know waiting is hard but it happens when it's supose to happen. It took me almost a year to find the one i'm with. No one can say or tell you when it's supose to happen. The only thing we can do is share our experiences. Everyone is different. Sometimes we look to hard and end up getting lost in it and for get what were looking for. Yes attraction can through us off but it's learning the difference between the two is where you grow

Where do you get this map? All I have is a road atlas from Rand McNally.

I think that concept is totally bogus. Like love, nothing comes to your life by just waiting except old age and boredom. Get out and make things happen, right or wrong, comfortable or uncomfortable, go stir up the universe around you and see what happens. Stumbling into something will always happen (good or bad), but sitting around breeds boredom and lethargy and that just leads to b*tching.

Make a decision, make something happen.

sometimes when i am sitting on a bus, or whenever i am waiting in the doctors office i picture me singing infront of a huge audience on braodway, all of a sudden the lights dim, and i am alone in my own world, where i sing... i was only admitted twice so i know the problem is not me or mys singing.....






.....In a perfect world
One we've never known
We would never need to face the world alone

They can have the world
We'll create our own
I may not be brave or strong or smart
But somewhere in my secret heart

I know
Love will find a way
Anywhere I go
I'm home
If you are there beside me

Like dark turning into day
Somehow we'll come through
Now that I've found you
Love will find a way

I was so afraid
Now I realize
Love is never wrong
And so it never dies

There's a perfect world
Shining in your eyes
And if only they could feel it too
The happiness I feel with you

They'd know
Love will find a way
Anywhere we go
We're home
If we are there together

Like dark turning into day
Somehow we'll come through
Now that I've found you
Love will find a way

I know love will find a way

Totally agree..you are in control of your own life and happiness...don't wait around for a knock on the door that will never come.

Good luck to you.