Topic: Here is a question for women
I_love_bluegrass's photo
Thu 10/25/18 07:38 PM
Edited by I_love_bluegrass on Thu 10/25/18 07:38 PM

I had a longer profile on here for years. I was looking for a boyfriend. I changed it about 2 months ago and I get the same messages.


It's sad....
They don't read the profile, don't *want* to read it, can't be bothered to...all of which means they are lazy...and who wants a lazy man?

If they can't be bothered to read a profile..if that takes too much of their time/ is too much effort....one has to wonder what *else* they are lazy at...LOL

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Tue 10/30/18 08:58 PM

We can start by having a bit of courtesy and present ourselves in a decent manner.
We don't need to have all the information about a woman before we contact her. The lack of information can be conversation starters, such as questions about herself, how she feels about such or such subjects, where she likes to go on vacation...




That's a good answer, something the gentlemen on here should take note of. Don't matter if the person you are writing to didn't provide enough info about theirself that's no excuse for a man to write pervy.......

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Tue 10/30/18 09:04 PM
always talk about poo. then whine a little for no reason.

Riverspirit1111's photo
Wed 10/31/18 04:36 AM

Here's another question for women...

Is it better to peel the apples before or after you core them?
and...
Who wants some homemade apple crisp?


I love apple crisp... served with homemade ice cream.

It's better to peel them after you core them, less messy waving

Beachfarmer's photo
Wed 10/31/18 04:51 AM
So is someone gonna shag here, or what?

actionlynx's photo
Wed 10/31/18 05:43 AM

So is someone gonna shag here, or what?


Why are you talking about carpet? tongue2


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Wed 10/31/18 07:56 AM

So is someone gonna shag here, or what?



My guess is probably not. There will be sighs and deep longing followed by fapping.

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Wed 10/31/18 08:16 AM
i have only one question
why is that no one on this site trust Indians ?

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Wed 10/31/18 08:18 AM
Edited by Riverspirit1111 on Wed 10/31/18 08:23 AM
oops


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Wed 10/31/18 08:22 AM
This was not a stupid question as this was only my experience that developed over time and i shared it in form of a question as it was bothering me.

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Wed 10/31/18 08:23 AM


i have only one question
why is that no one on this site trust Indians ?


I don't think it's the Indians that they don't trust or like, it's the ones who ask stupid questions like this that they don't like or trust. slaphead


There is no such thing as a stupid question only stupid people asking questions. :wink:

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Wed 10/31/18 08:24 AM



i have only one question
why is that no one on this site trust Indians ?


I don't think it's the Indians that they don't trust or like, it's the ones who ask stupid questions like this that they don't like or trust. slaphead


There is no such thing as a stupid question only stupid people asking questions. :wink:


Yep.. I just remembered that, so edited my post laugh

Riverspirit1111's photo
Wed 10/31/18 08:31 AM

This was not a stupid question as this was only my experience that developed over time and i shared it in form of a question as it was bothering me.



It's a generalization and not realistic. Not "everyone" on the site mistrusts Indians. And why do you assume that it's because you are from a certain ethnic group. Maybe it's you personally or something in your profile they don't like? There could be a lot of reasons why you aren't getting the responses you'd like.

Coming in the forums and asking that kind of accusatory question for one is enough to turn people off.

Just my opinion, I could be wrong.

Perhaps ask others to rate your profile in the "rate my profile" forum. Then maybe you can see if it's your approach or your culture that is interfering with you meeting others. I doubt it's your culture.

Welcome and good luck!


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Wed 10/31/18 08:36 AM


So is someone gonna shag here, or what?


Why are you talking about carpet? tongue2




laugh

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Wed 10/31/18 08:38 AM

This was not a stupid question as this was only my experience that developed over time and i shared it in form of a question as it was bothering me.




You are 23 and have been on this site for less than a month. I've no doubt you've attempted to contact as many eligible women as possible on your quest. Have you spoken to every woman on this site? Probably not. Is your approach to the women you've contacted one that repels not attracts? We'd have to ask them. Assumptions make people seem stupid even in the unlikely eventuality that they are not, in fact, stupid.

I_love_bluegrass's photo
Wed 10/31/18 08:52 AM


This was not a stupid question as this was only my experience that developed over time and i shared it in form of a question as it was bothering me.



It's a generalization and not realistic. Not "everyone" on the site mistrusts Indians. And why do you assume that it's because you are from a certain ethnic group. Maybe it's you personally or something in your profile they don't like? There could be a lot of reasons why you aren't getting the responses you'd like.

Coming in the forums and asking that kind of accusatory question for one is enough to turn people off.

Just my opinion, I could be wrong.

Perhaps ask others to rate your profile in the "rate my profile" forum. Then maybe you can see if it's your approach or your culture that is interfering with you meeting others. I doubt it's your culture.

Welcome and good luck!




I don't know who you are contacting, but *most* women (and most men) are not interested in someone on another continent/ several thousand miles away..

Because you asked: "why is that no one on this site trust Indians ?"
I am assuming you aren't contacting Indian women in your own area?

Maybe focus on women within 200-300 kilometres of you.

Namaste

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Wed 10/31/18 10:07 AM
Thanks all i think i got my answers..

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Wed 10/31/18 10:09 AM

Thanks all i think i got my answers..



Care to share the fruits of your quest for knowledge and enlightenment?

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Wed 10/31/18 04:53 PM


I don't know who you are contacting, but *most* women (and most men) are not interested in someone on another continent/ several thousand miles away..

Because you asked: "why is that no one on this site trust Indians ?"
I am assuming you aren't contacting Indian women in your own area?

Maybe focus on women within 200-300 kilometres of you.

Namaste






I would love to live overseas with a romance.


MsLeeHM's photo
Wed 10/31/18 09:21 PM

After you have written hundreds of messages without receiving any responses, why bother writing a decent message? If I send a very short message and you respond in some way, then I'll bother starting a decent conversation.


That is what copy and paste is for. if you can't write a good individual response to everyone who contacts you then have a generic one that fits all sizes.

I do have a fair amount of info in my profile. not that many men read it but it is there. So when a guy from the US sends me a message and says he loves my profile then I know he hasn't read it. It clears says no long distance and no international. Although I suppose they may not know that Ottawa ON is in Canada or they want out of the US and see Canadians as a ticket out. I do think most have no idea about the immigration process. And well the scammers aren't planning to be around that long anyways.

I never ever copy and paste generic responses. I will admit that I do like to be bad and play along with some of them before I offer a few facts.

I will say though that my profile has gotten the attention of more scammers than propositions. In fact I have only had one rather blunt sexual offer.