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Topic: Relocation. Would you? Yea ? Na? Why?
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Wed 12/12/18 08:33 PM

When I think about where to live, I think of weather conditions. Southeast coast has too many hurricanes. Northeast and Northwest has bad snow and cold. Midwest gets bad snowstorms and tornadoes. Southwest can get bad droughts and monsoons. Maybe I live in one of the best areas of the country.


You are right no matter where you live it might be bad weather. As for me I have found 2 places I have lived that even tho it has a potential for bad weather it did not manifest while I was there. 1 being by some cliffs in Illinois and the other is where I live now. So yea.

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Wed 12/12/18 08:37 PM

I have no doubt I will. I've already had two proposals for the Wrong Cities.

So I declined.


Kewl, I will not live in big cities. Naw nope. I like them medium. Less than 100k people.

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Wed 12/12/18 08:45 PM
Minnesota and Wisconsin sounds really cold. Everybody is wanting to move to Idaho. I don't know why.

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Wed 12/12/18 08:51 PM

Minnesota and Wisconsin sounds really cold. Everybody is wanting to move to Idaho. I don't know why.


Mmmmm Yea Mmmmm Where I am now has had a very mild winter so far. Has hung around the 50 degree mark. Some cold days and nights but no where near up NE, N.

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Thu 12/13/18 12:54 AM
Yes i can for the right person i repeat for the right person

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Thu 12/13/18 12:56 AM
Lol :grin:

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Thu 12/13/18 01:07 AM
LDR ~ not really interested in a prolonged virtual relationship.

Relocate ~ I would relocate if I had my own reasons to relocate there.
I certainly wouldn't relocate due to an LDR -
Been There ~ Done That ~ Didn't Work Out.

Would I consider allowing a LDR interest to relocate to my home?
Maybe?
It depends upon why she is relocating and if she has the capacity to maintain herself.
I'm not going to be someone's "sugar daddy".
I'm not looking for a "sugar momma".

I had a LDR with a woman from Florida.
I considered relocating to be closer to her so we could actually meet and build a relationship.
She offered to let me stay with her and I declined.
I did look into long duration stays at motels in the area.

I researched the area and realized it would not be a smart move because the only appealing factor was a LDR with a woman I have never actually met.
As the LDR continued, I figured out that her personality did not fit me.
Had I relocated, it would have been a poor choice and then I would be stuck living someplace I didn't want to be.
Higher cost of living,
Much stricter DMV laws,
Stricter community laws,
Longer distance from my family.

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Thu 12/13/18 01:35 AM

I guess I would, for the right person. Just brings up another question. Of when & how do you know they are the right person? mmmmmm smile2


I am happy where I am, but I agree with you, and meeting the right person would change my perspective. If I believed I had found 'the one', and we both felt marriage was the next step, I would relocate, so it would be a very serious relationship and that takes time to establish before you know they are the right person.

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