What most others have already said, a mixture of that.
And especially approach women more your own age, and what you exude. From what you pst here, you tend to have an old-fashioned and negative view of women. A woman will pick up on that a mile away.

Apart from that, in the new area people might be slightly different and maybe a bit suspicious of newcomers. I've had that in a street with somewhat posh people when I was a single mother. A number of the married-with-children women treated me like chit, ignored me if they could. I sensed they were afraid of a single woman. As if "single woman" automatically equals "she's after my man".
Maybe there people equate single man with a guy after sex.

Try Craigslist, I hear it has opportunities for those not affected by capitalism.

...dear, i would love to be able to afford a shining suit of armor and to be able to hire the noble Art of the chastity belt maker in modern times...

...in an alternate universe.

I don't have any irrational "hate of women" for being able to get sex so easily when compared to men.

I simply don't have to believe women's lies.

In my case, finding women who are willing to be friends, is quite a challenge, currently. But, that is due to Capitalism and Its influence on society, and men and women.

i might as well just argue and try to discover, sublime Truth (value) discoverable through argumentation.

What most others have already said, a mixture of that.
And especially approach women more your own age, and what you exude. From what you pst here, you tend to have an old-fashioned and negative view of women. A woman will pick up on that a mile away.

Apart from that, in the new area people might be slightly different and maybe a bit suspicious of newcomers. I've had that in a street with somewhat posh people when I was a single mother. A number of the married-with-children women treated me like chit, ignored me if they could. I sensed they were afraid of a single woman. As if "single woman" automatically equals "she's after my man".
Maybe there people equate single man with a guy after sex.

To speak bluntly, guys want sex, but they don't wait for the woman to decide if she wants to give that up. I hope. Once you give them what they want , photos or dances, or whatever. Just flirty stuff. No harm, but you have boundaries in words and suggestions.
They want you to do things. Why, I don't know you. I am typing to you on the computer!!! Dah. I like planning, but the other side, you should plan some things, it keeps it flowing. Women like that. ...Something to look forward to I say. ! Accept me for a bad habit or two. Some might say. You got anything wrong with you? :)

This is a pretty good reason why I don't bother with women anymore. Too many automatic assumptions, based on gender. I've heard loads of stories about how men go about the fine art of dating. Of course, about 90% of it is all bs. One little minor point. Being a man does not mean I'd listen to them. But women don't know that. They apply what they have been told, past experiences, and other silly lore that makes them difficult, if not impossible to date. Your roadblocks stop me. No, I won't try to overcome them-you aren't worth it. Having sex with you isn't all that uplifting to me.

So go ahead, apply all of your irrational garbage onto me. Walking away from it is easy, and I'm no worse for wear because I did.

When you approach these "fearful" women,
are you wielding a an axe, or a skinning knife?


I think their "fear", is a perception of yours.

You forgot to mention that the grapes are sour, too.

This is a pretty good reason why I don't bother with women anymore. Too many automatic assumptions, based on gender. I've heard loads of stories about how men go about the fine art of dating. Of course, about 90% of it is all bs. One little minor point. Being a man does not mean I'd listen to them. But women don't know that. They apply what they have been told, past experiences, and other silly lore that makes them difficult, if not impossible to date. Your roadblocks stop me. No, I won't try to overcome them-you aren't worth it. Having sex with you isn't all that uplifting to me.

So go ahead, apply all of your irrational garbage onto me. Walking away from it is easy, and I'm no worse for wear because I did.

You forgot to mention that the grapes are sour, too.

Time to pass the cheese.

Due to Capitaliziam? LMFAO! Maybe women have a fear of contracting a sexual disease from someone that wants sex from the get go did ya ever think of that?

Can I have whine with mine?

I call it like I see it. Few can bare peer pressure like I can. If I can't live my life, my way, then it's not worth living. Go find someone that will kowtow to you, and your opinions.

should i insist on safe sex? know where i can get extra thick condoms that may have ridges on them?

If you want extra thick condoms with ridges, I suggest calling a tire manufacturer about a "custom job"