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Topic: The fear women have?
Leadfarmer86 Joined Tue 02/14/17 Posts: 1	Tue 08/13/19 02:50 PM
And how often do "Perverts" approach you? lol

ctr916 Joined Sun 06/17/18 Posts: 889	Tue 08/13/19 03:01 PM
...i don't mind helping women out with some of their fears, it is what nice boy friends should be good for in modern times.

Bobi Joined Tue 06/25/19 Posts: 4	Tue 08/13/19 06:26 PM
We are taught socially to be fearful as We are physically weaker and therefore defenseless

catinidaho Joined Fri 10/24/14 Posts: 10640	Tue 08/13/19 07:20 PM
I've had a few sketchy men try to approach me in parks and malls.

oldkid46 Joined Fri 02/09/18 Posts: 1711	Tue 08/13/19 07:57 PM
Unfortunately there is no socially acceptable way to meet women, therefore we are destined to play these silly games until we die or give up.

ivegotthegirth Joined Fri 08/17/18 Posts: 6666	Tue 08/13/19 08:19 PM
Sure there is, just talk at the store, at the gas pumps, at the coffee shop and anywhere. Just chat and at some point things will click with someone. This is just my opinion oldkid but I think you may be overthinking the whole thing......

ctr916 Joined Sun 06/17/18 Posts: 889	Tue 08/13/19 08:43 PM
...i have a fear of meeting women in public and preferred to get used for sex by women in private, first.

oldkid46 Joined Fri 02/09/18 Posts: 1711	Wed 08/14/19 07:11 AM
Sure there is, just talk at the store, at the gas pumps, at the coffee shop and anywhere. Just chat and at some point things will click with someone. This is just my opinion oldkid but I think you may be overthinking the whole thing...... Sounds so simple. Are you saying you can just start a conversation with someone in the grocery store you have never seen before? I wouldn't expect the culture to be that different between Nebraska and Minnesota although you do live in a much larger community.

Riverspirit1111 Joined Wed 06/27/18 Posts: 100738	Wed 08/14/19 07:24 AM
Sure there is, just talk at the store, at the gas pumps, at the coffee shop and anywhere. Just chat and at some point things will click with someone. This is just my opinion oldkid but I think you may be overthinking the whole thing...... Sounds so simple. Are you saying you can just start a conversation with someone in the grocery store you have never seen before? I wouldn't expect the culture to be that different between Nebraska and Minnesota although you do live in a much larger community. I believe a lot depends on your intent and the vibes your sending. If you're just being friendly and sociable, most people are receptive to that. If you're trying to pick up someone, your vibes change and could make them a little weary of you. I find talking to people easier when I'm just being friendly, but if I'm attracted to him I get a little nervous for some reason, lol... That nervousness can be mistaken for something else by the other person, hence no interaction happening.

Lau_reborn Joined Sat 07/06/19 Posts: 4	Wed 08/14/19 10:20 AM
I think for me i would fear because Ive always been taught to be careful with strangers. Theres fear of being alone in the dark. Social media and news also play a role esp. In Kenya where rshps are a joke and marriage is a come we try thing. For me id rather chat up a stranger online and never meet them just to be social

Unknow Joined Thu 04/01/10 Posts: 1482	Thu 08/15/19 08:46 AM Edited by Unknow on Thu 08/15/19 08:47 AM
I really don't have a problem talking with men who I don't know, when I'm in the bakery or the supermarket or outdoor concert. I do have to be more concerned about my surroundings when I'm out alone, walking somewhere. I'm small, not strong and I have no weapons. Every woman should carry pepper spray. "What is pepper spray? What does it do? A 1-second blast of pepper spray will render an individual incapacitated for 15 minutes to over an hour. Pepper spray is an inflammatory agent it will IMMEDIATELY: induce coughing, choking, nausea, it will dilates the capillaries of the eyes causing temporary blindness, the mucous membranes will swell to the point of cutting off all but life support breathing, causes intense burning and an assailant to be temporarily incapacitated." -pepperspraystore.com I dated an ex sherrif he said one of the drawbacks to pepper spray is if it's windy you can get sprayed. Pepper foam or gel is more effective

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48914	Thu 08/15/19 09:56 AM
Unfortunately there is no socially acceptable way to meet women. Actually, there is. I meet women all of the time.

I_love_bluegrass Joined Wed 04/25/18 Posts: 1665	Thu 08/15/19 10:10 AM
Unfortunately there is no socially acceptable way to meet women. Actually, there is. I meet women all of the time.

oldkid46 Joined Fri 02/09/18 Posts: 1711	Thu 08/15/19 10:11 AM
Unfortunately there is no socially acceptable way to meet women. Actually, there is. I meet women all of the time. I'm all eyes to see where this may happen. Doesn't seem to happen much in my life. On rare occasions at a convenience or grocery store and they are often very young or very old.

I_love_bluegrass Joined Wed 04/25/18 Posts: 1665	Thu 08/15/19 11:18 AM
Unfortunately there is no socially acceptable way to meet women. Actually, there is. I meet women all of the time. I'm all eyes to see where this may happen. Doesn't seem to happen much in my life. On rare occasions at a convenience or grocery store and they are often very young or very old. Dude...I see lots men in my age range in grocery stores (and various other stores), at the gas pumps, at restaurants (eating alone), at various social things I go to all the time.. Now, whether they are single, and would in any way be interested in me...I have no idea... But, I am not believing you don't see women in your age range out & about.

Queenie Joined Thu 04/26/18 Posts: 16001	Thu 08/15/19 11:36 AM
None I conceal carry

Unknow Joined Thu 04/01/10 Posts: 1482	Thu 08/15/19 08:41 PM
Unfortunately there is no socially acceptable way to meet women. Actually, there is. I meet women all of the time.

mzrosie Joined Wed 08/14/13 Posts: 33997	Thu 08/15/19 09:23 PM Edited by mzrosie on Thu 08/15/19 09:34 PM
Unfortunately there is no socially acceptable way to meet women. Actually, there is. I meet women all of the time. I'm all eyes to see where this may happen. Doesn't seem to happen much in my life. On rare occasions at a convenience or grocery store and they are often very young or very old. Dude...I see lots men in my age range in grocery stores (and various other stores), at the gas pumps, at restaurants (eating alone), at various social things I go to all the time.. Now, whether they are single, and would in any way be interested in me...I have no idea... But, I am not believing you don't see women in your age range out & about. Believe it Bluegrass. Most people in our age group are dead or soon to be dead. Sometimes they are just asleep, but they look dead. oldkid, just give it a rest. If you would accept the fact that you will be alone for the rest of your life (which is not really that long lol jk), you'd feel much better. Focus on you, on how can you be happy alone. Stop blaming women. It's not their fault that you are not what they are looking for. Your obsession of having an active sex life at this age could be appalling to some women. Women want to be loved.. they are not just for your sexual pleasure. The most feared words for women our age is "I took the pill tonight." omg 2 hrs until that thing goes down.

Glenn Joined Thu 08/15/19 Posts: 2	Fri 08/16/19 01:27 AM
I wonder whether you have ever had this experience: you are talking to a friend about your faith and they are looking back at you with a blank stare. They have no idea what you are talking about. When you talk about a relationship with Jesus, to them it is like you are speaking about an ‘imaginary friend’. It makes no sense to them at all.

Glenn Joined Thu 08/15/19 Posts: 2	Fri 08/16/19 01:29 AM
Oh I can help you if you ready to marry I will find you a serious woman that keep ur life save