I was not using the app for a while and when I logges back in I had a few missed messages. One I can clearly see (in the message preview) that the woman had provided me her phone number. I can see the 1st 5 or 6 digits and know it's a local number which leads me to believe it was legit and not spam, and wanted me to text or call her.

However, sometime between her sending that message and me returning to the app to find it she had deactivated her profile. And because she had the app will not let me open the message, but simply gives me the notification "user profile deactivated".

I can see her pic, her username, she looks cute and I'd love to be able to view that message and at least get an answer as to whether she's available and still interested and worth getting to know. But try as i might to reach out for support from the app the automated reply system doesn't understand my query.

Anyone here able to offer some help??

Once a member has been deactivated either on their own or by the site there is no way to retrieve that info..

If the member deactivated themselves then when they re-activate you will be able to find out the info you are seeking..

Regardless if the site does it or they do it you will get the same message.

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Kristi

Well that stinks

I think it happens a lot. I will get a message that is 10 minutes old. I go to view their profile to send a message, they are deactivated.

Try Reddit?

thats cause the admins are doing a great job , well whom ever has been kicken all the scammers that is : )
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