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Topic: What do guys think about a girl like this?
Reenie's photo
Mon 12/10/07 02:19 PM
So I'm new to this site and no really knows me on here, but I would really like guys' honest opinion about this subject matter. Guys, what do you think about a girl who is saving herself for marriage? Would you date someone like that and be willing to wait or would you get bored and find someone else instead? I'm really starting to wonder if I'm being unrealistic in my hopes...

rozey2680's photo
Mon 12/10/07 02:20 PM
Ok, I'm not a guy, but stick to your guns honey! the right one will waitflowerforyou

coco56's photo
Mon 12/10/07 02:21 PM
well im not a guy but i think its great wot you are doing ,wait for the one you fall in love with

dmx_wyrw's photo
Mon 12/10/07 02:21 PM
i've got some mad respect for this. if they don't want you to wait then forget em.

DebbieJT's photo
Mon 12/10/07 02:22 PM
im not a guy either but envy and admire you hun

welshboy's photo
Mon 12/10/07 02:22 PM
theres nothing wrong in waiting for the right person:smile:

thumper95's photo
Mon 12/10/07 02:22 PM
look,, its your body, your life,, your choice,, you do what you feel is right,, dont make anyone force you to settle for something you dont want.

no photo
Mon 12/10/07 02:24 PM
It's a choice, and there's certainly nothing wrong with making that choice, if that's what you want to do.

It wouldn't work for me, though -- I've been married, and -- barring amnesia, lobotomy or some really good hypnotism -- I would never do that again.

So for me to get involved with someone saving themselves for marriage, that would basically mean ain't nothing EVER going to happen....!

I'm sure plenty of other people would be fine with it, though....

Sexyklp4U's photo
Mon 12/10/07 02:24 PM

Ok, I'm not a guy, but stick to your guns honey! the right one will waitflowerforyou


if there is one that will wait, let me know, huh? cause i dont think there is..noway noway noway

laugh

no photo
Mon 12/10/07 02:24 PM
I would date a woman who was saving herself for marriage, as long as there was open communication , as there should be ...
Anyone who tells you different like , you are nutz fro trying, or crazy , have your fun now ??.. is definietely NOT thinking of your choice, just his own ...
only my thoughts BUT I am way older ..:smile: laugh
Good luck and welcome ..

DebbieJT's photo
Mon 12/10/07 02:26 PM
you could be right hun but isnt the mail ego trip to be the first ?????

DebbieJT's photo
Mon 12/10/07 02:26 PM
thats male lol typing again

rockman888's photo
Mon 12/10/07 02:27 PM
:tongue: i would wait...

Reenie's photo
Mon 12/10/07 02:29 PM
Hey thanks for the feedback everyone! I know it's my choice, I think it's just hard finding people my age who respect that. I'm 20 and have never had a boyfriend. I didn't get the chance to date in high school and most college guys arent exactly looking for relationships. Im hoping that they'll grow out of it but it just gets really frustrating sometimes.

fredmike05's photo
Mon 12/10/07 02:30 PM
i dated a girl for 4 years she wanted to wait and i respected that and didnt force her into anything we r no longer together but we r still very good friends.....i would do anything for here

Gustava's photo
Mon 12/10/07 02:30 PM

It's a choice, and there's certainly nothing wrong with making that choice, if that's what you want to do.

It wouldn't work for me, though -- I've been married, and -- barring amnesia, lobotomy or some really good hypnotism -- I would never do that again.

So for me to get involved with someone saving themselves for marriage, that would basically mean ain't nothing EVER going to happen....!

I'm sure plenty of other people would be fine with it, though....

I completely agree. Also, although I know this is not going to be a popular opinion, I don't see what the big deal is about virginity---for a man or a woman.

guyguy1225's photo
Mon 12/10/07 02:31 PM

So I'm new to this site and no really knows me on here, but I would really like guys' honest opinion about this subject matter. Guys, what do you think about a girl who is saving herself for marriage? Would you date someone like that and be willing to wait or would you get bored and find someone else instead? I'm really starting to wonder if I'm being unrealistic in my hopes...
if she was the one you bet I would wait,and respect her even more for it ,but it would be hard for both. ....stick to your guns and good luck ,your not alone this type of thinking is spreading with so many STD's out there

pennyg281's photo
Mon 12/10/07 02:31 PM
If he respects you he will wait for you. If he pushed you for sex, thats all that he wanted in the frist place. Always rember it;s your boy and your choice.

CaRisLOVE's photo
Mon 12/10/07 02:33 PM
i dunno since i had tha taste of sex i cant really hold out not to give sex lol but you seem like a girl im sure good to know
or to hang out with but dont get me wrong im all about love boo!
:heart:

ZacharyRyan's photo
Mon 12/10/07 02:34 PM
I think that's awesome.... I would be happy if I found the right woman AND she had waited... perfect combo.... stick with it...

but the reality is that most do not wait and I cannot fault it too much because I didn't either... though I do feel it is realistic to find someone who shares a similar outlook on sexual relations...

(that's getting less and less likely as I get older laugh )

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