Topic: If someone propositions you..
I_love_bluegrass's photo
Sun 05/12/19 03:22 PM
in a message, and you report it...do they get kicked off here?

Because I just had someone do that..noway

Eman Resu's photo
Sun 05/12/19 04:06 PM
I keep getting people with the same profile picture(s) and a different name wanting my telephone number so they can send me nude pics. I wonder if there is a way to report that kind of behavior.

soufiehere's photo
Sun 05/12/19 04:49 PM

in a message, and you report it...do they get kicked off here?

Because I just had someone do that..noway

Why would anyone be kicked off for doing what
they came here to do???

Now, if they were chronic posters of lewd material
that would be a different story.

soufiehere's photo
Sun 05/12/19 04:52 PM

I keep getting people with the same profile picture(s) and a different name wanting my telephone number so they can send me nude pics. I wonder if there is a way to report that kind of behavior.

It is VERY helpful to report dual profiles (same pics) by using
the report system already in place on each and every profile
(just left of their Headline) 'Report This User.' Include names/
usernumbers if you can.

soufie
Site Admin

Eman Resu's photo
Sun 05/12/19 04:58 PM
Thank you. I will do that in the future. I just did not want to report it because the wording of the report button did not really match the nature of the report. Ie, the behavior was not really abusive...etc. But I shall report that from here on out.

soufiehere's photo
Sun 05/12/19 05:00 PM

Thank you. I will do that in the future. I just did not want to report it because the wording of the report button did not really match the nature of the report. Ie, the behavior was not really abusive...etc. But I shall report that from here on out.

It is against the rules to have 2 profiles so they
are taken down immediately, any help is appreciated ;-)

I_love_bluegrass's photo
Sun 05/12/19 05:15 PM
Edited by I_love_bluegrass on Sun 05/12/19 05:20 PM


in a message, and you report it...do they get kicked off here?

Because I just had someone do that..noway

Why would anyone be kicked off for doing what
they came here to do???

Now, if they were chronic posters of lewd material
that would be a different story.


He messaged me with something nasty...I hardly consider that "what they came here to do"...
If that is what he wants, then he needs to change his profile to looking for "Intimate Encounters"..

The Terms Of Use even say that " pornographic, obscene, or offensive language" is prohibited.

Sure, i could just block him, but..that doesn't stop him from doing it to other women.

stephenbadger's photo
Sun 05/12/19 05:17 PM
Edited by stephenbadger on Sun 05/12/19 05:49 PM
think nooo, nude pics, so what ?? if you like living dangerously, do it & if it turns to ****, report it !! ...(a) you don't give your ph number to anyone unless you want to talk to them, having already invested days or weeks of messaging establishing bona fide's ...and if your relationship survives the messaging stage ...(b) impatient types that want to meet&greet without messages don't need your ph number & could be obnoxious, nasty &or dangerous ...(c) impromptu requests for your email-address generally are email-address thieves or "bad site" poachers, report them !!

ps. though obviously multiple profiles are encouraged on "paid subscriber" venal rip-off bad sites/multiple mega-sites & l have often seen 3, 4, 7, 13 or 17 profile pics staring back at me from simple &or deluded ladies with deep pockets, l do stand corrected by "support" ... only one "nasty" or one "good" or a "mix & match" profile per good member, hehe!

drool nooo, propositions are perfectly normal human behaviour if the proposal is on the up & up & legit, as opposed to poxy, horrible scum-sucking money-scammers noway

ps. yes, you're correct, the profile definitely should be listed "intimate encounter" so you that can choose to bar those approaches.

Eman Resu's photo
Sun 05/12/19 05:23 PM
Edited by Eman Resu on Sun 05/12/19 05:25 PM


Thank you. I will do that in the future. I just did not want to report it because the wording of the report button did not really match the nature of the report. Ie, the behavior was not really abusive...etc. But I shall report that from here on out.

It is against the rules to have 2 profiles so they
are taken down immediately, any help is appreciated ;-)


That is good to know. I just did not think about that based on the wording of the reporting mechanism, which reads and i quote, "INAPPROPRIATE PHOTO? ABUSIVE OR OFFENSIVE BEHAVIOR?". None of the behavior met that so i did nothing. :D. I tend to take directions and wordings to the T, so when a site does not use precise enough wording, this happens. But that is my fault for reading into it too directly.

no photo
Sun 05/12/19 05:28 PM
Bluegrass, if you feel offended, you should be able to report. I don't know what will happen.

soufiehere's photo
Sun 05/12/19 05:36 PM

That is good to know. I just did not think about that based on the wording of the reporting mechanism, which reads and i quote, "INAPPROPRIATE PHOTO? ABUSIVE OR OFFENSIVE BEHAVIOR?". None of the behavior met that so i did nothing. :D. I tend to take directions and wordings to the T, so when a site does not use precise enough wording, this happens. But that is my fault for reading into it too directly.

Use it to report anything that makes you feel uncomfortable
and the admins will sort it out.

Eman Resu's photo
Sun 05/12/19 05:40 PM


That is good to know. I just did not think about that based on the wording of the reporting mechanism, which reads and i quote, "INAPPROPRIATE PHOTO? ABUSIVE OR OFFENSIVE BEHAVIOR?". None of the behavior met that so i did nothing. :D. I tend to take directions and wordings to the T, so when a site does not use precise enough wording, this happens. But that is my fault for reading into it too directly.

Use it to report anything that makes you feel uncomfortable
and the admins will sort it out.


Well, i actually did not feel uncomfortable at all. I am not easily creeped out or otherwise made uncomfortable. But I will read the site's rules and now report anything that makes me uncomfortable OR breaks the site's rules. :D. Thanks so much for all of your input. Have a great day.