Topic: Honesty
ranilynz_28's photo
Sun 05/26/19 05:44 PM
Can someone to be honest and not make lie .
Can someone's to be true to there self and not making up story .

tessa68's photo
Sun 05/26/19 06:26 PM

Can someone to be honest and not make lie .
Can someone's to be true to there self and not making up story .

Yes someone can, you just have to be cautious....been here,been there and it's all about survival of LDR.
Goodluck to you and welcome to Mingle.

Rock's photo
Mon 05/27/19 01:00 AM
There are indeed, honest people in the world.


ranilynz_28's photo
Mon 05/27/19 04:57 AM
I guessed you right . I just encountered a wrong people in not right time .
Thanks anyway

ranilynz_28's photo
Mon 05/27/19 05:03 AM

There are indeed, honest people in the world.

Hope so ... everything was not right but am not losing hope that someday I can meet someone is honest and true

IgorFrankensteen's photo
Mon 05/27/19 02:24 PM
One of the things that makes all aspects of living tricky, while dealing with other people, is that we can (almost) all think.

That has a side effect, that some people end up thinking things through ahead of time, and when they imagine that things wont go their way if they are honest and open, they might decide to try saying not the truth.

Even some mostly honest people who mean well, will say things other than the truth, if nothing else, to avoid tension or friction that they fear might come if they WERE entirely honest.

And of course, especially here in "relationshipland," it's common for people to believe that a little bit of lying at the beginning is all but imperative. The most common lie told, I suspect, is saying that they don't mind something, when actually they very much do. But they hope that they'll be able to put up with it until they like you enough that it stops bothering them, or that they can eventually convince you to change for them.

I end up forgiving some kinds of lies, almost without another thought, but some others are the kind that make any continued relating impossible.

Take them one at a time.

ranilynz_28's photo
Mon 05/27/19 02:30 PM
Thanks sir.
I try to understand and be open minded for every thing.
White lies is not severe but lies for intention is different .
Relationship start at the trust that's the first foundation to make a healthy relationship with someone

Cross 's photo
Tue 05/28/19 01:52 AM
Yes you're right

Cross 's photo
Tue 05/28/19 01:53 AM
All you need to do is learn how to understand each others

Duttoneer's photo
Tue 05/28/19 01:09 PM

Can someone to be honest and not make lie .
Can someone's to be true to there self and not making up story .



In real life it is much easier to see when people are not whom they say they are, here on the internet their photos can be fake, their profile description can be fake, so we need to be very careful.

Clearly, not everyone is fake, but when meeting someone here online it's better to take your time, yes be friendly and get to know each other but don't become close, wait until you meet them in person before deciding on friendship, that way you will never be hurt by online storytellers.