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Topic: Flirting with a stranger in public?
unsure's photo
Tue 12/18/07 12:16 PM
I did something that my friends can't even believe I done!! There was this really cute guy in at Kohl's...so I was buying a friend a Michigan shirt, I said "excuse me but I am not a Michican fan but do you know if they are called the Wolvarines?"
Now when I walked up to him, I looked to see if he had on a ring...he didn't!!!
He started laughing and said "I have no clue, I hate Michigan!"
So we both laughed..then he said "But let me ask my wife, her best friend loves Michigan" laugh
Now trust me, when he came back over to tell me, his wife came over with him!!! So she informed me that yes they were the Wolvarines!!! laugh

Nickinolosers's photo
Tue 12/18/07 12:26 PM
laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

DaveyB's photo
Tue 12/18/07 12:35 PM
Are you bold enough to flirt with a stranger in public?


Isn't that kinda what we are all doing here? laugh

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Tue 12/18/07 02:13 PM
Love to because it leads to nothing but a little unexpected fun.

styxx's photo
Tue 12/18/07 03:55 PM
arnt we flirting in public now....to all you shy ppl who said you wouldnt...you lied and are busted

MicheleNC's photo
Tue 12/18/07 04:14 PM
{{{Ms V}}}

How goes it? We have got to get together when the holiday mess is over.

I flirt with everyone. Men, women, cats, dogs, horses, etc. Just how I am.

flowerforyou M

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Tue 12/18/07 04:16 PM
XOXOXO!!!!! MicheleNC!!! Hello,lady. Glad to see you're on the radar screen.

CaRisLOVE's photo
Tue 12/18/07 04:22 PM
sometimes i do and sometimes i dont
:wink: laugh

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Tue 12/18/07 06:25 PM

Chief- I think your statement about women not teaching sons to be attractive to women is offensive. Watch what you say, as I'm sure you meant to write sometjing like "women tend to focus on building qualities that are valued in a spouse and not really related to flirting or initiating a relationship".
I think sometimes women tend to try to compensate for all the "bad" men in the world who do not respect women and that is why mothers focus on this. I teach my son how to be a good person and address issues as they come up. Parents, both men and women, should do this. Men, as they grow up, look to their parents as an example but really learn those sorts of things (flirting) in social forum. They learn how to flirt by watching others, and it is not at all related to their mothers teaching them to be honest and make the bed!

Sorry if I came off as offensive in regards to the topic at hand, but I have noticed a certain trend nowadayws, and this is true in my personal experience, that more and more mothers are actually teaching their sons things that act against their potential attractiveness to the opposite sex. Then, when the son sees real flirting in action in real life, he interprets the situation as the male acting like a "jerk," even if the girl is giggling and blushing.

The values imposed upon sons today that supposedly make them better spouses are greatly influenced by the mysandry of feminism gone wrong and they give these sons the message that they are worthless compared to women and should therefore succumb to a woman's every whim. I'm sure some women will read this paragraph and respond with positive emotion, which is reflective of this tragic trend of mysandry.

Along with being honest and knowing how to make the bed, many mothers nowadays send these messages to their sons by dominating the fathers and by strictly wearing the pants in the family, showing that males should be highly submissive in a male and female relationship. This certainly isn't true for all families, but this has been a growing trend in modern times.

The son is accustomed to submissiveness, learning to hate himself for being another stupid evil male by nature. When he witnesses any masculine behavior in flirting (which attracts females) portrayed by males outside of his family, he responds with anger, thinking "omg that is not going to win a girl's heart; she will only hate him for that sort of behavior. that guy doesn't know much about girls, does he?"

Parents have the responsiblity of teaching their children to be good, but they also have to be supportive of their sexual identity, which is something with-held from too many males in modern day.

Jeepinfool's photo
Tue 12/18/07 10:00 PM
you must be strictly delusional, i have done the asking someone out in public or talking to someone in pulbic, it only works when your part of the beautiful crowd, otherwise they won't give you the time of day, and thats not me being bitter its me having experienced it first hand multilple times. so please spare us all the rederic

Jeepinfool's photo
Tue 12/18/07 10:02 PM
heres an idea since for some reason we are not able to start a conversation, why not initiate it with us, some of us have tried the initiating part of a conversation only to get shut down

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Wed 12/19/07 01:41 AM

you must be strictly delusional, i have done the asking someone out in public or talking to someone in pulbic, it only works when your part of the beautiful crowd, otherwise they won't give you the time of day, and thats not me being bitter its me having experienced it first hand multilple times. so please spare us all the rederic

Can't you accept the fact that you have been approaching the situation the wrong way the whole time?
When something doesn't work... don't give up, just try another way to do it. Edison tried like 5000 different models for making the lightbulb, failed 4999 times and got it right the 5000th time. he didnt try the same way 5000 times and give up.
I personally know the right way to make the lightbulb, metaphorically speaking, and I say that YOU are the strictly delusional one because you choose to blind yourself out of frustration. And, no, I'm not part of the beautiful crowd. I'm a short Asian kid. Yes, plenty of females ignore me because I'm short UNLESS I actually DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT.
Quit whining and DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT... like reading my thread "Pickup Artist Secrets Revealed!"

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Wed 12/19/07 07:43 AM
Jeepinfool bitter much?

burghmanz81's photo
Wed 12/19/07 08:48 AM
Edited by burghmanz81 on Wed 12/19/07 08:49 AM
Sounds like some one needs to step up their game a little. IF your confident....I repeat IF........ you will be successfull in at least sparking up conversation, not every woman is going to want to go out with you just because you went about it the right way, or said the right thing, you gotta just click with the person and if you dont move on with no hard feelings. i have and suck to say it but im still single. BUT im confident in my decisions on who and when i talk to women.

For now
JZdrinker

daniel48706's photo
Wed 12/19/07 08:51 AM
I flirt all the time, playing it by ear on what the lady is comfortable with...

kkoldazice's photo
Wed 12/19/07 09:27 AM
I'm a wallflower. I'm not one to flirt, I'm the run and hide type... blushing on here it's easy... i don't have to look at anyone. lol.

UWannaBSpontaneous's photo
Wed 12/19/07 12:35 PM
Flirt all the time. It's fun and it makes you feel alive. Plus, keeps you in practice for when you use it on "The One".... well in my case it's "The Next One".

Ha!

J

Puffins1958's photo
Wed 12/19/07 12:43 PM
Well...just speaking for myself

I don't believe I flirt....nope, never have


laugh :tongue: laugh

DaveyB's photo
Wed 12/19/07 03:22 PM

Well...just speaking for myself

I don't believe I flirt....nope, never have

laugh :tongue: laugh


:cough:, :cough:, :choke: Right I'll attest to that for you :cough:.

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