bitter maybe , spent a lot of time and effort 13 + years and thought it was for life ...and then to have that happen ...maybe with a lean to the yes if you are meaning it in referring to hurt .... yes that bleepen hurt

uhm where was i degrading =causing a loss of self-respect; humiliating. ?
maybe if i showed it to her or there was a chance in a million years of her reading it (uhm she was there, she knows it happened)... or i could have told her present husband the 20 some odd times he asked me in less there a 12 hour time span , when i helped them move from there old house to there new, now that for sure would be degrading

But telling the truth about how i used my life to try explain my point on love is cruel is degrading ....
lost me on that one
and i don't really have any other experiences that felt like that to explain my point
i could make one up for ya, but yeah that's not me
even what i wrote, i didn't even call her a name
i try not to judge, i know i am not perfect ... not by a long shot, but its all good, cause no one is, every human has a crack in there butt
and besides i have not time to walk a mile in there shoes, i seen a lot of people in high heals, i would break my neck for sure
but good point on the bitter
yes that bleepen hurt what she did
any who i am way off topic and i don't wanna go to mingle jail
i heard the food service in there sucks
but i did at least want to respond to a text that seams aimed at me

Maybe it is a bit like the sea.

The sea is not cruel, merely indifferent.

The outcomes of our physical lives is indifferent to our emotional lives.

People do things to eachother or leave / not see eachother all the time, look at school kids; it's just the heavy emotions, which are caused by chemicals in our system, that cause the pain. Caused by the perceived loss to us, or upsetting the 'comfort zone', of our pattern of life.
The pain receptors are in the brain, chest, and stomach area, at nerve concentrations.
If you didn't care, it wouldn't hurt.

If it didn't hurt, poetry, the blues, country, and rock and roll wouldn't be the same.

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