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| Topic: Why are younger/older men/women more appealing? | |
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Older women definetely are more appealing for me Why?  Because they are not silly and they know what they want plus they dont waste your time, etc... Most mature women have learned through life's experiences who they want and what they want. Is having children not important to younger men? Or is the relationship only for a few years?
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I prefer to be with older/mature gay/guy
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I prefer to be with older/mature gay/guy Why the frown friend?  
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Ohh, well I was not frowning haha I guess I didnt see that little guy there haha But yeah, I like to be with someone older than me. They are well experienced, they know better in life (mostly but there are also some are still pain in the ***) lol
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I wish you the best in finding your love....
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Two people together that want to actually be together = match
 what else matters |
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hi
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Firmer buttocks..
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I definitely love older men and women, they have so much expeirence and are just more mature
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I had a over who was 18 years younger than me for around six years until she was seconded to New Zealand with her job. She didn't want to go but I told her that it was the opportunity of a lifetime so she should. The reason I'm telling you this is because she enjoyed having an older man as she said I never rushed things and was patient (she actually said I teased more than anyone else she'd known) and always made sure she was satisfied. Her point being that men of her age that she'd known over the years were more selfish with sex and hadn't really figured that a woman was just starting to get warned up at the point they were grunting and ready to roll over and go to sleep.
I did point out that I wasn't sure that every man of any age was like that all too often and that it was probably a sweeping statement but she still dissagreed. That is my experience but my opinion is that within reason I don't think age is an issue if two people are genuinely attracted to each other but that the problem usually lies with others who see them together. I never quite figured out if the issue they have is jealousy or disgust or the thought as others have said here that the younger one is after whatever they can get out of the arrangement financially. I say live and let live and if it works for both sides then let them get on with it. |
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Ooops...the crucial bit of information should have been I had a lover not an over!!!!
I must remember to switch off autocorrect or proof read before I send. Hmmmmm....now I'm wondering how exciting an over would be  
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The age in itself is just a number as long as both partners are compatible with each others level of maturity and with their goals and preferences, hobbies, etc. I have seen 20 year olds that were more mature than many in their 30's and even beyond. Then there are also those people that never "grow up". And older ones that can really relate to a much younger age group. There are also quite a few young women that prefer older men (and most of them - at least the ones that seek a real long term, serious relationship - do not have "father issues"). No offense, but your profile clearly states you want a certain age group, so you can have children. Age obviously matters to you and that is fine. I wasn't answering for me, I was answering your question in general. Like I said some people prefer other age groups for several reasons and preferences. And yes, this is one reason - there is no offense... But when you are 71, say she gets pregnant straight away, you will be 70 something. Is that responsible parenting? My 21 year old needs her mother now and in the years to come. I have no idea what your are referring to in the light of what I really said? In your stated case the goals then might not match, not many people in their seventies (at least that I know) still want to have children. Then they will look for someone that doesn't want children either. So again, there has to be matching goals/lifestyles etc. - and that you can find matching up even in some larger age gaps (nobody is talking about 50-60 year age gaps, but even that happens, whatever works for them). It is none of my business, but I actually made an error in my typing. It was supposed to say because you are 50,(not 71), when your grown children need you you could be too old or have passed. Is not responsible parenting being there for them? You do not need to answer, it is your personal choice. Yet as a mother, I know my daughter still needs me and wants me to be active and capable, when she has children. God bless you irregardless. Shalom. Yes I am 50 - not 70 - LOL there is quite a difference. You can be in your 20's have children and die in your 40's, so what's the point? You can die any moment through a car accident. My Grandmother was 94 when she died and only because they killed her in the hospital (she could have easily made it to 100). Anyways this is all speculation. Yes the mortality rate might go up with increasing age but again, statistics. If you take care of yourself and exercise and eat right and keep yourself healthy 50 is not an old age anymore. So should I deprive myself of a family just because of this speculation? Anyways if children are in their 20's I think you have done your essential parenting as far as your responsibilities go. - Just my 2 cents... Shalom! |
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hi, im a newbie
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hi
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im in the year of the monkey, sorry for that
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hi
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I like the younger for dancing, never physical darn it. I've dated older mostly but I don't do relationship well, so keep looking.
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