in all honesty i'm not necessarily relying on any morale fiber in my decisions with this subject, at some point we all have to decide that enough is enough, i'm not doing it because, its morally wrong, i'm going to not do it because, i'm going to try to do my part not to encourage this ever growing trend. it had to start with someone back then, and if we allow it to get worse, it will get worse and i know plenty of people who have been thrusted into parenting, because of that kinda of activity, so now children are being brought into the equation of whether this is right or wrong, so that is another detremental aspect to this FWB, when is it going to stop, how many people have to suffer, most likely never i imagine, but i'm going to take on the resposibility of not participating regardless of what my **** is thinking

I did it for 2 weeks, it worked real nice for 2 weeks. Then she started to get attached, then we quit. But it was good for 2 weeks!

to awnser the second part of what you were saying, whether you or the other person have an agreement, or not, someone is always left holding their heart ripped in half, whether you see it or not. i know no one who has left a situation like that, with anything positive to say about it. these things are the product of selfish thinking, maybe that person you thought was ok with it, truly isn't yet they won't tell, yet after its said and done with they will hold a deep anomosity towards you whether its justified or not, and then takes that into a permanent relationship harboring those ill feelings and taking it out on that person, in which now someone has paid for it. someone always gets hurt maybe not directly, but indirectly. i'm not judging anyone who do it, i can't cause i have done it, but i will take accountability for my own actions a try and make amends to those that i hurt and fogive those who have hurt

as of now i ONLY do FWBs. No ONSs, no LTRs.

No matter what you label it (i.e., "friends w/ benefits", a "booty-call", "f*c* buddies", etc.) a sexual relationship will inevitably lead to emotional attachment for someone involved.

sex is a wonderful part of any healthy relationship. or not!

I have had one for almost 5 months now.

There are rules and boundries.

No kissing, cuddling, showing affection.

So far so good. But I don't get attached easily. Sex isn't an emotional thing to me.

i have a friend an he an i have been friends for 15 years he told me a couple of months ago that he was inlove with me, it blew me away i love this man like a brother we think alike fininish each other word we like the same things an dislike are the same, i had to tell him i love him so much but im not in love with him, he was hurt now just think if we would have had sex the friendship would have been lost, swo it best to leave things the way they are....if you truley love your friendship...

this is to the pricness...that is why i have a hard time trusting women, i keep meeting your type and its wearing me out, i want to avoid your type, but i don't know how, what is it about your type that you prey on innocent hearts

There will be always someone in the end that will get hurt...

I Honestly don’t think you can have any type of sexual relationship with someone with out eventually gaining feelings for that person … I mean that’s just me … I mean how could anyone have so many passionate moments with some one and not feel something …

Hey hookers do it all the time...lol

but I agree with you...

lol but ask a hooker if she is really happy

I agree with Magic....well said..on your first response..

I am for FWB...I see nothing wrong with it...If one is mature and open and communicate with the other then there is no harm done...
It depends on your perspective and ones own definition of "FWB"....
I have had three "FWB" and to this day all three are my best friends..they have been there for me through thick and thin..my ups and downs..one was a pallbearer in my fathers funeral...it's called unconditional "love" on a different level, for me it's powerful and spiritual and wonderful...I wouldn't trade it for nothin...
However, it isn't for everyone..just depends on the person..

Personally I think that is a horse of a different color...comparing oranges with apples if you will...

well if you had sex with me you would feel something...

Not sure if that was to me, or someone else, I don't feel like going through four pages of posts. If it is to me:

Preying on innocent hearts? That's far from who I am. Talk about judging.

My tubes are tied I won't bring ANY children EVER into a "relationship" like that. That is just plain wrong!

Agree...unless the sex is great & then you likely will become more than friends. Is that a bad thing?

I think to each their own, so long as both parties are in agreement and are honest.

While it's something I would not attempt, I wish those that do luck!