Topic: Something from the past
missLeunda's photo
Wed 12/19/07 09:50 AM
Well I was with this guy who said he loved me and everything. He would call me baby and stuff. I gave him money when he needed it, but then realized in the end just how much I gave him. Which was almost 200 dollars in just a month. Then he was using me for sex and stuff, but the funny thing is I still have feelings for him. Am I stupid for that?:heart:

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Wed 12/19/07 09:55 AM
yep and you should be talkin to me

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Wed 12/19/07 09:55 AM
:wink: bigsmile laugh laugh :wink: :tongue:

Johncenawlife316's photo
Wed 12/19/07 09:57 AM
Well I wouldn't say stuiped is the word but I guess so if he isn't paying you back one penny of that $200 bucks he has asked for.

If I where you I would ask for the money back and tell him how you feel.

You can do better then him.

Hope things works out for you.

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Wed 12/19/07 11:27 AM
No not stupid....but lets just say you need to make him "work" that $200 off......devil devil devil

Garcon??? Cabana Boy?? Where are you???devil :wink: laugh

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Wed 12/19/07 11:34 AM
I wonder if he makes good sandwiches??? Hmmmmmmmm I bet he can clean the toilet really well......ohhhhhhhhhh how about the oven????noway laugh noway

CaptainSpaz's photo
Wed 12/19/07 11:41 AM
I meet way too many women who get caught in a similar situation and I've never heard of it ending well.

lausim's photo
Wed 12/19/07 12:41 PM
On the other side of that, I've known of (not friends with) girls that pick the date by where they are going and how much money, dinner and gifts they can get out of them.


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Wed 12/19/07 12:41 PM

Well I was with this guy who said he loved me and everything. He would call me baby and stuff. I gave him money when he needed it, but then realized in the end just how much I gave him. Which was almost 200 dollars in just a month. Then he was using me for sex and stuff, but the funny thing is I still have feelings for him. Am I stupid for that?:heart:


Isn't sex a shared thing? How is he using you???? and you not him at the same time??? Did you not want sex and just gave it to him?

Not stupid yet! Just stop giving him money and see how he handles it. If he flys off the handle then I would suggest end it quickly..... His behavior won't change even if he says he will there will be others as that is a real bad behavior if someone can't handle "No".

Best of Luck... Cute Pic!

J

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Wed 12/19/07 04:48 PM
yes
but that doesnt make u any different from anyone else
lol
you were being guided by emotion, not logic

the word "stupid" describes something being guided by poor logic
logic wasn't even part of the picture here because it was all emotion

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Wed 12/19/07 06:27 PM
Dump him if you already haven't. Just chalk it up to a $200 learning experience...not too expensive but a great life lesson!!

wanttachat's photo
Wed 12/19/07 06:37 PM
never ever give a man money
if he doesn't have his own income then you'll end up supporting him forever and never getting paid back just thank your lucky stars it was only $200 and move on

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Wed 12/19/07 06:38 PM
one word...sociopath

UWannaBSpontaneous's photo
Wed 12/19/07 08:26 PM

never ever give a man money
if he doesn't have his own income then you'll end up supporting him forever and never getting paid back just thank your lucky stars it was only $200 and move on


I don't agree with that. I have borrowed money and paid every dime back. How can one be so general about the populous. It's funny cause I've given way more than money to the gl's and didn't get it back so I could say the same thing. I won't though.

Sociopath..... that was funny!

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Wed 12/19/07 08:36 PM

Well I was with this guy who said he loved me and everything. He would call me baby and stuff. I gave him money when he needed it, but then realized in the end just how much I gave him. Which was almost 200 dollars in just a month. Then he was using me for sex and stuff, but the funny thing is I still have feelings for him. Am I stupid for that?:heart:


Yes, you are.