Topic: Why mostly guys here so judgemental
Airah's photo
Wed 05/06/20 10:33 AM
I am new in this site and mostly boys here chatting rude words even They didnt talk to me first. they are easy to judge a person just because they have bad experience here and they thought I am one of the bad filipina girl. really so lame.

maybwecan's photo
Wed 05/06/20 10:48 AM
Hi...

I think it a bit judgmental to be a member less than 3 days and then say "mostly guys" do such and such...that is very quick to start pointing fingers...and making generalizations...

also in the profile - "three years being single" and "never married" is not possible...so which is it?

welcome to Mingle...enjoy your ride...

SunnyMike's photo
Wed 05/06/20 10:50 AM

I am new in this site and mostly boys here chatting rude words even They didnt talk to me first. they are easy to judge a person just because they have bad experience here and they thought I am one of the bad filipina girl. really so lame.


You're not the first woman to say this. There are nice young men here. I hope you find what you are looking for.

ivegotthegirth's photo
Wed 05/06/20 11:02 AM

I am new in this site and mostly boys here chatting rude words even They didnt talk to me first. they are easy to judge a person just because they have bad experience here and they thought I am one of the bad filipina girl. really so lame.



You're cute and I'm sure you'll meet lots of boys here if you wish but the key word/problem for you is in both of our first sentence............"boys" at your age are really stupid. I know I was one. A few will grow up and be men sooner than others but most, no. Don't know what to tell you, you'll just have to watch them. Good luck!

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Wed 05/06/20 11:28 AM

Hi...

I think it a bit judgmental to be a member less than 3 days and then say "mostly guys" do such and such...that is very quick to start pointing fingers...and making generalizations...

also in the profile - "three years being single" and "never married" is not possible...so which is it?

welcome to Mingle...enjoy your ride...

So you think you must have been married in order to now be single??

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Wed 05/06/20 11:32 AM
All I can say is be more selective who you talk to. You are the one who does the sifting and sorting, learn to be discerning. When a message is immature you delete, when it's rude and out of line you report.
And then move on. It's what you get on a large free dating site.

It might also help if you expand your profile beyond saying your a mother and single.

no photo
Wed 05/06/20 03:05 PM
Lol...wtf?
Why mostly guys here so judgemental... thought I am one of the bad filipina girl. really so lame.

So you judge that most men on here are so lame because they judge you as what you judge to be bad filipina?

Is this from another site under r/nicegirls?

Airah's photo
Wed 05/06/20 11:31 PM
thank's for the comment but what i've written is true. that's what I mean some guys judge me I am lie without knowing the truth. they didnt even say Hi they jsut read my profile and directly message me What i have wrote in profile isnt true. in this world nothing is imposible. so don't tell me its not possible coz all information I wrote is true. but I don't need to convince people to believe me the most important I know who and what I am.

Airah's photo
Thu 05/07/20 12:10 AM
i know that thank you.

SpaceCodet's photo
Thu 05/07/20 12:37 AM
no comment

Nancy's photo
Thu 05/07/20 09:20 AM
I don't know what these "boys" are finding in your profile that they don't believe. You describe yourself as a single mom, never married, don't have a boyfriend. And you're looking. Not earth shattering.
And BTW these are men, not boys. You are an adult woman.