ok so like... i dunno what's goign to happen, but it looks like in a few days time (day after christmas is the plan) unless something happens, i'm actually going to meet a girl! (omg) and in case anyone's intrested to know... it is someone i met on JSH! Who knows how it's gunna go but i'm really nervous about it, excited but nervous and i'll tell you guys why, and maybe you guys can help me relax a little bit.

So this girl i been talkin to, she seems nice, and sweet, but noone is perfect, and we've talked via instant messenger, but she usually types and responds in short brief messages, and we havn't talked on the phone or nothing yet i dunno is that a bad thing or does it not matter? but here's the one that bothers me kinda and maybe it shouldn't at all... she doesn't have a picture to show... at all really. I mean, on one hand it really shouldn't matter at all, but on the other hand i see it as a level of seriousness... if your serious about wanting to meet someone you should make an effort to have a picture in your profile, OR AT LEAST have one available to show someone...

i dunno, maybe it's just nervs, and there's deffinatly other things around it that maybe it's butterflies, but they dont' FEEL like they add up, so that's i'm posting. At the same time it's kinda the same thing as a blind date almost, like we got "set up" by a mutual friend... just the mutual friend was justsayhi.com lol

and furthermore... i've allways trusted my closest friends, and i still do... and my one friend hasn't allways had uplifting advice, but he's allways had GOOD advice... and he agrees with me that something here isn't adding up, and he said if it was him, he'd cut it off now... but at the same time... HE JUST met someone somewhere else, so i dunno if i can sit here and take his advice about meeting someone, after he just met someone granted it is VERY diffrent circumstances.

any way, for reason of details for advice, the girl i'm meeting is about a 4 hour drive away, she's driving to me, and she's not goign to be staying with me... so there's really nothing scary that could happen far as i can tell

what do you guys think? am i just nervous? i think i'm just nervous. after all, if you don't take any chances you'll never find what your looking for right?... right?

Don't over think it... your stressin way to much....

Just relax and have fun

time to switch to decaf.........

LOL ok that's kinda what i thought lol... anyone else?

Meet in a public place. Better safe than sorry.

I HOPE VS CAN CHEER YOU UP

well that was the plan

awww! obsess over what your gonna wear! make it hot, but not over~done, thats a turn off! wear lots of deodorant, but only a touch of cologne. be awesome! and the words, just wing it! dont think up of clever lines to say! its weird! good luck!

lol ok well, i never obsess over what i'm going to wear, but the rest of it sounds about like me :) so i gotta good natural head start hehe

but you guys all think i'm just losin my mind bein nervous, i just need to relax huh. i knew you'd all help me collect my thoughts.

honestly - if this girl is some lazy mess who wants to stay home and text the night away, the biggest advice i can give to you is this: get some fresh air- and i dont mean that in an insulting way....really- turn off the pc, step outside, and youll see that you just might find someone good !!!

this is advice from a guy who met someone from this site ( is this girl from jersey, is she? )
anyhow, she was a total waste of time, and had issues up the boot.....if things dont add up, sometimes its better to dgo with your senses....

As long as you meet in person what is the worst that can happen? You don't like each other in person.
But really don't over analyze it or you won't have any fun. Just relax and enjoy the day.

i agree lay off the coffee and meet in a public place lol

Is she bringin the voices in her head?

she doesn't seem to have split personalities or naything... she's just young, and doesn't seem to have everything... in order i guess you could say...

and no, she's not from jersey lol


and how did everyone KNOW i had coffee tonight... jeez...

Damn them voices. They ruin everything.

hey long as the voices in my head get along w/ the voices in hers we'd be fine right? ....okay not really funny LOL

screw the voices! whats her user name?

Reminds me of that tv show Hermans Head

can't share the username... got in trouble for that on the forums once before... and sorry i don't know from hermans head =/ but if it fits my comment it sounds like it had to be good.

rofl pixie