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The majority of guys who contact me are at least 30 yrs younger than me. In the past I asked them why they’re interested in mature ladies and the majority of them have said that they were previously ‘seduced’ by older ladies and had a good experience so would like to recreate the emotion and they felt then. Others have said they would like the experience which just tells me that they’re sexually inept. In fact I have a couple of guys blatantly ask me if I could show them a thing or two  A few others also admitted that it was just something on their bucket list. I dare say young guys just seem to find mature ladies intriguing. I dated a guy who was 12 yrs younger than me for almost 2 yrs but I wouldn’t any more. There were too many differences and responsibilities (on his part) for me to contend with and I decided that guys who are at the same life stage as myself are more compatible for me. Ben, why are you attracted to mature ladies? Older women are much more well rounded — they know what they feel and why they feel it. "It's easier to have a relationship with an older woman, because she knows how to communicate what she wants. It has a snowball effect all the way around. ... Younger women just don't allow me to grow in the ways older women do." Taken straight from a website. Now in your own words please. |
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Ben, why are you attracted to mature ladies? Older women are much more well rounded — they know what they feel and why they feel it. "It's easier to have a relationship with an older woman, because she knows how to communicate what she wants. It has a snowball effect all the way around. ... Younger women just don't allow me to grow in the ways older women do." What a load of craaaap!!! All women, no matter what the age, are not the same. |
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The majority of guys who contact me are at least 30 yrs younger than me. In the past I asked them why they’re interested in mature ladies and the majority of them have said that they were previously ‘seduced’ by older ladies and had a good experience so would like to recreate the emotion and they felt then. Others have said they would like the experience which just tells me that they’re sexually inept. In fact I have a couple of guys blatantly ask me if I could show them a thing or two A few others also admitted that it was just something on their bucket list. I dare say young guys just seem to find mature ladies intriguing. I dated a guy who was 12 yrs younger than me for almost 2 yrs but I wouldn’t any more. There were too many differences and responsibilities (on his part) for me to contend with and I decided that guys who are at the same life stage as myself are more compatible for me. Ben, why are you attracted to mature ladies? Older women are much more well rounded — they know what they feel and why they feel it. "It's easier to have a relationship with an older woman, because she knows how to communicate what she wants. It has a snowball effect all the way around. ... Younger women just don't allow me to grow in the ways older women do."  Good answer! When you played the race card I was ready to give up on your thread. I'm happy to see your intentions are not racially motivated but I could be wrong... As people age many become wiser in life. They tend to have more patience. Personally, I find younger generations impetuous. However, there are a few youngins' who have a higher degree of patience and are gaining life wisdom by paying attention to their experiences and the lessons taught. For them, being within the influence of an older wiser person has great reward. During the 'formative years' some have parents who teach wisdom. When we become responsible adults those influences from the 'older' parent(s) is less pronounced. Seeking older people to build wisdom is natural. I hung out with older men. Mainly because my father was an alcoholic and gave me little of his time. Older men had the wisdom I needed to learn what I needed to learn. I found their demeanor a bit more assuring. If your mother was your main influence for wisdom and patience, its understandable you would seek older women to fill the vacant spot your mother no longer fills. You would respect those qualities in older women you respect in your mother. Their demeanor probably gives you a feeling of assurance. Then again, I could be wrong...You might just have mommy issues. |
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If this question was posted by a young White Man, how would you respond to it? It a question to be answered by all I think. but for someone to answer belonging to one nationality speaking on another nationality and for another gender is very ignorant. he's not Melanated nor is he a female. just answer from a male perspective and quit trying to downgrade the Melanated Male. |
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The majority of guys who contact me are at least 30 yrs younger than me. In the past I asked them why they’re interested in mature ladies and the majority of them have said that they were previously ‘seduced’ by older ladies and had a good experience so would like to recreate the emotion and they felt then. Others have said they would like the experience which just tells me that they’re sexually inept. In fact I have a couple of guys blatantly ask me if I could show them a thing or two A few others also admitted that it was just something on their bucket list. I dare say young guys just seem to find mature ladies intriguing. I dated a guy who was 12 yrs younger than me for almost 2 yrs but I wouldn’t any more. There were too many differences and responsibilities (on his part) for me to contend with and I decided that guys who are at the same life stage as myself are more compatible for me. Ben, why are you attracted to mature ladies? Dating someone older than me, In my view, would help me refocus. Sharing the knowledge of she has been through, would most of all guide me In understanding the thought process of differentiating what beneficial careerwise, social life, and/or anything in general, e.g how to know who a gentleman is and who is not, how to prioritize items In life. Things no one would tell you in person without having hard feelings. I would date a older lady/ma'am to, most importantly, have the benefit of being with someone who, as the Africans say, "has seen a lot". I like exchanging ideas for the betterment of both of us. Who knows we could be the best business partners. It's not about a young guy gaining financially, learn how to fish and fend for thyself. |
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years ago i dated a woman 14 years older than me, she was cute and funny etc...one day over lunch after dating 2 years she said, "if i ever marry another man, it will be my ex husband again".
she must not have noticed the air go out of me. i never dated her again and couldn't even explain why... later i did research when i got older and younger women wanted to marry me...i found statistically speaking if u are within 10 years of your partner your marriage has a good chance of lasting... at my age now i am accosted by a lot of 30 something women who probably have what is known as daddy issues...there is a 35 year old i find quite funny and attractive if the circumstances become better i would consider her as a mate... |
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A lot of lonely old white men rap children every minute of the day so what's ur point *******
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