Topic: What do I do?
John's photo
Wed 03/10/21 02:19 AM
I don't know whether to just message ladies I like or whether I should wait to be 'Matched'. I don't want to jump in on someone unanounced, if you see what I mean.
Just wondering what is the protocoll and what other people do.
John

Trixie's photo
Wed 03/10/21 02:35 AM
waving Hi John, welcome to Mingle2 :heart:

There is no particular protocol, and I don’t think waiting to be matched is ideal. If you see somebody you like then just send them a nice introductory message. If they are interested they will probably check out your profile first, and then hopefully message you back.

Good luck on Mingle2

John's photo
Wed 03/10/21 02:45 AM
Hi Trixie.
That's what I thought.
Thanks for clarifying.
John

Larsi666 😽's photo
Wed 03/10/21 02:49 AM
All these "matches" might be tempting, but bear in mind, Mutual Match is only a wee game :wink:

Stick around in the forums, you might find a real match here :thumbsup:

Trixie's photo
Wed 03/10/21 02:51 AM
You’re welcome John :heart:

John's photo
Wed 03/10/21 02:58 AM
Thank you Lars.

John's photo
Wed 03/10/21 02:59 AM
Just sent you a lengthy and boring message :smile:

stan_147's photo
Wed 03/17/21 03:27 PM
Fortune favors the bold.


You miss 100% of the shots you never take.

no photo
Wed 03/17/21 04:23 PM

Just sent you a lengthy and boring message :smile:


Good on you. Will you keep us updated? 🤭🤭

Rock's photo
Wed 03/17/21 04:26 PM
People message here?


no photo
Thu 03/18/21 01:12 PM
Dazzle them with your wit and charm.

dez's photo
Wed 03/24/21 02:19 AM
just say whats on your mind or chat **** or whatnot, you cannot and will never be able to decide for somebody else if they like you so just be yourself ^^

no photo
Wed 03/24/21 07:09 AM
I don't know whether to just message ladies I like or whether I should wait to be 'Matched'. I don't want to jump in on someone unanounced, if you see what I mean.
Just wondering what is the protocoll and what other people do.
John

I definitely wouldn't message the ones you DON'T like LOL. I don't think there is anything wrong with messaging before matching. I personally do not send messages but then again Im female and really just here for the forum chat because Im stuck at home ALL THE TIME. except when I meet friends once a month this makes me feel at least somewhat connected and not isolated.

Cloudy's photo
Thu 03/25/21 09:10 AM
All these "matches" might be tempting, but bear in mind, Mutual Match is only a wee game :wink:

Stick around in the forums, you might find a real match here :thumbsup:

I agree.

Real people are in the forums

Acquired Taste's photo
Fri 03/26/21 01:40 AM
sad frustrated tears waving

Ɔʎɹɐx's photo
Fri 03/26/21 03:35 AM
blow'em a kiss