Topic: Polygamy Relationship
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Sun 05/02/21 11:35 AM
Do woman enjoy having both partners different sex nowadays? WHY??? if yes is your answer.. isn't 1 partner enough anymore???

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Sun 05/02/21 11:56 AM
Edited by maybwecan on Sun 05/02/21 12:16 PM

Do woman enjoy having both partners different sex nowadays? WHY??? if yes is your answer.. isn't 1 partner enough anymore???


first, I think you need to understand the difference between polygamy and polyandry...your polygamy question should be addressed to men...

so the question to you is - "Do men enjoy having both partners different sex nowadays? WHY??? if yes is your answer.. isn't 1 partner enough anymore???"

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Sun 05/02/21 12:44 PM
If all women were identical, an answer to the question would be possible.

you may as well ask if women like garlic or onions or...............


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Sun 05/02/21 01:20 PM
I was in a poly relationship 2 years ago, a coworker with an existing girlfriend invited me into their relationship which I accepted shortly before moving in with them. It worked surprisingly well but inevitably became toxic.

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Sun 05/02/21 01:51 PM
Of late I'm beginning to wonder if I have inadvertently moved to an anti-women forum. The number of prejudiced postings from men has rarely been this high.

I wonder why OP believes women want a poly relationship.
Personally I've never come across even one woman that was after that, nor have I heard about it.
All I have heard and know, including from personal life, are women who want a committed, monogamous relationship.
That is also what dating / relationship say is what women want.
I'm not saying there won't be women that would like a poly relationship, but I think that these are very very few.

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Sun 05/02/21 02:05 PM
Maybe, in some cultures/religions, it is tolerated to enter such a relationship? I am not sure. But in Europe (because it is the continent, where I reside), such relationships are very rare indeed.

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Sun 05/02/21 06:44 PM
Do woman enjoy having both partners different sex nowadays?

I'd say the question is flawed.

I would amend it to something more like:
"Are people nowadays more like children? Believing the path to happiness and contentment is the ability to (even the entitlement of subsidization) immediately gratify any personal emotional impulse and random thought, avoiding FOMO, and any experiencing (or even really having to consider any) cost, risk, or consequence of their own choices, that isn't validating or pleasurable, being some kind of horrible trauma?"

Just like a baby with a bottle. When hungry? Cry and scream. Mom takes away the bottle knowing if the baby drinks the whole thing the baby will get sick? Cry and scream because eating feels good.

WHY???

Do you understand the baby boomer generation and idea of a nuclear family (house, dog, white picket fence, 2.5+ kids) was started by government propaganda after losing generations of people in the world wars and wanting people to be fruitful and multiply (otherwise not enough soldiers for the next wars and people paying gov't salaries)?

Plus, thanks to the last 100 years or so of marketing, rom coms, music, and Disney, people have become junkies to mating chemicals, chasing the dragon that will get them perpetually "love" high to fulfill that utilitarianistic ideal.

Instead of taking a step back and realizing how bad that is, they've just expanded their options to what can be pursued to get that perpetual high.

https://markmanson.net/romantic-love

isn't 1 partner enough anymore???

Why do you think it ever was?

Have you ever spent a lot of time looking through genealogical records, analyzing any of the information, especially with people sharing their DNA through ancestry sites?

You have any idea how many people find out their parents (or grand, great, great great, etc.) were half siblings, their cousins were really their parent?
You have any idea the sheer number of people whose marriage certificates far outweighed in number their divorce certificates (and it wasn't due to death)?

Not to mention people finding out while their parents (grand, great, etc.) prattle on about their "soul mate," it turns out they married because one got pregnant, meanwhile one or both had their "true love" living across town, sometimes of the same sex?