Topic: LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP
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Sat 10/02/21 05:45 PM


Dude, LDRs SUUUUUUUUUCK. I'm not a fan. It's so frustrating, wanting to be with someone who is far away.

That said, sometimes it happens. You "meet" someone online that you feel an instant connection with. You get caught up in talking and video chatting and discover that you really, really like them. It's definitely not ideal, but sometimes it's worth exploring.

I think that if you both have the means and the time available to actually visit one another and to spend time together it can work. I know people who have done it successfully and are now married.


Sweet torture, good things come to those who wait. :heart:



Good things come to "some" that wait. smokin

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Sat 10/02/21 05:50 PM



Dude, LDRs SUUUUUUUUUCK. I'm not a fan. It's so frustrating, wanting to be with someone who is far away.

That said, sometimes it happens. You "meet" someone online that you feel an instant connection with. You get caught up in talking and video chatting and discover that you really, really like them. It's definitely not ideal, but sometimes it's worth exploring.

I think that if you both have the means and the time available to actually visit one another and to spend time together it can work. I know people who have done it successfully and are now married.


Sweet torture, good things come to those who wait. :heart:


^^^ Makes the wait so worth it. :heart:


^^^ Has a way with words.:heart:


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Wed 10/06/21 07:04 AM
Good topic, alot of points to learn from.

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Sat 10/09/21 11:22 PM
I was in the long distance relationship and we've been together for more than 2 years. we met on the internet. after talking for 1 year on the internet, I decided to go to see her from Japan to Spain. we started dating since then. Everything worked well until the pandemic hit. Even though she tried to come to Japan, she couldn't make it. But we didn't give up the hope to be together. I went to Spain this summer to see her and we spent time for more than 40 days there. everything was just fine until 3 week ago, 2 weeks after I came back from Spain. she suddenly told me she needed time to rethink about our relationship. she told me she felt guilty on me putting a lot of effort to be with her but she didn't. I've been waiting for her answer for 2 weeks, feelings anxious, depressed. Yesterday, she told me she would go back to her hometown because she missed her family. however, it turned out that she was cheating on me. Telling lies to me many times and she actually went to see other guy. I figured it out by asking about this to her best friend. I was devastated. I felt like I couldn't trust anyone in relationship, as if my heart was filled with the scene of emptiness so, yeah, I would recommend that you should be in relationship who is trustful, reliable, and who loves you as much as you do.

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Sun 10/24/21 11:35 AM
I was in the long distance relationship and we've been together for more than 2 years. we met on the internet. after talking for 1 year on the internet, I decided to go to see her from Japan to Spain. we started dating since then. Everything worked well until the pandemic hit. Even though she tried to come to Japan, she couldn't make it. But we didn't give up the hope to be together. I went to Spain this summer to see her and we spent time for more than 40 days there. everything was just fine until 3 week ago, 2 weeks after I came back from Spain. she suddenly told me she needed time to rethink about our relationship. she told me she felt guilty on me putting a lot of effort to be with her but she didn't. I've been waiting for her answer for 2 weeks, feelings anxious, depressed. Yesterday, she told me she would go back to her hometown because she missed her family. however, it turned out that she was cheating on me. Telling lies to me many times and she actually went to see other guy. I figured it out by asking about this to her best friend. I was devastated. I felt like I couldn't trust anyone in relationship, as if my heart was filled with the scene of emptiness so, yeah, I would recommend that you should be in relationship who is trustful, reliable, and who loves you as much as you do.

I'm so sorry to hear about what happened to you. I hope you heal from the pain it gives you and meet new people. Some LDRs work and some don't. learn from what happened and try to move forward even if its painful.

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Tue 12/14/21 12:27 AM
no long distance relationship don't work at all

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Tue 12/14/21 01:43 AM
Yes long distance can be go long an end up happily if both are seriously well known to each other in moments of time workout on it.

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Tue 12/14/21 03:35 PM

I don't know how anyone would consider marrying someone they never met in person.



It's not love if you haven't Met in person.

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Wed 12/15/21 04:26 AM
Is it possible to find a partner online?

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Sat 12/25/21 09:39 AM
love is like a knot 🪢, it all depends how strong it is... distance doesnt matter, love is life 🧬

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Sun 02/06/22 04:29 AM
Is falling in love with person you haven't met in real life a normal thing? How many days is normal to consider that you really fall for someone? is it ok to marry someone online that you never meet in person yet?

i tell u from my experience...
My wife and i met onces in 2012 after that she moved back to her city.. and i was about 250km away from her..
we barely talk sometime once in 6month but we r married now... its upon understanding and trust.... we both trusted each other and respected each other.

Also most importantly its not all sex ...

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Sat 02/19/22 05:28 AM
IT CAN ONLY WORK WHEN IT MEETS THE ''EMOTIONAL

NEEDS'' OF BOTH PEOPLE......SIMPLE, NOT ROCKET

SCIENCE.

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Sat 02/19/22 05:58 AM
Upside is if it doesn't work out she is far away and we probably won't cross paths again

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Wed 03/16/22 02:48 AM
I think it’s great cause i like to travel the world

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Wed 03/16/22 02:33 PM
I love distance

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Thu 03/17/22 10:59 AM
I have met and chatted with a few women on dating sites !
started up by liking their profile , pictures included . Moved to messages and very lively conversations ... then moved to phone chats .... still lively and interesting ... then asked for a meet and greet ... mostly coffee meet ups .... On meeting reality kicks in ..... and within a few minutes you will know whether there is a genuine connection or not . Most times there is just no connection! for whatever reason ... i got lucky once , there was a great connection and lead to a second date ... and ended up in a two year relationship ...
all , i am saying is that there has to be a physical meet and greet , before any other decision is made!!!

for me i have no expierience about long distance relationship but i think if you give your patient and starting getting to know each other and also if trust to each other maybe theres a spart

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Thu 03/17/22 11:02 AM
for me i have no expierience about long distance relationship but i think if you give your patient and starting getting to know each other and also if trust to each other maybe theres a spart

maybe theres a spark connection between two people to stay longer but dont stop communicating to both of you.

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Sat 03/19/22 08:48 AM
thats what you called scam love🤣

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Sat 03/19/22 09:17 AM
How long it takes for me to know you and how long it takes for me to fall in love with you depends on your attitude.

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Sat 03/26/22 06:01 AM
Until you meet a person face to face, you do not really know if you love that person.
What you have is infatuation, not love.
Until you meet a person face to face, you do not know if you and the person are compatible.
When online, people can pretend to be something other than what they really are.

absolutely right