Topic: what I want in a relationship
massa1970's photo
Thu 09/09/21 07:02 AM
what I want in a relationship most is honest communication which is top priority for me. If your a native american then thats a plus as well as a preference of mine but what I really want is someone who answers questions honestly, and perhaps even volunteers information. I want someone who confidently asks for her wants and needs to be met. I want someone who can see the truth and tell it like it is while communicating with kindness. I just want someone who can communicate without being too critical, who cares about preserving her dignity. I want someone to choose me out of want rather than out of desperation — either materially or emotionally. I desire to feel I am in need to be wanted and needed by my partner, but I want my partner to have a separate identity and would like her to be non judgemental and who accepts things as they are and who wont try to change who I am. I want someone to be active and independent, to have her own friends and interests. I want no manipulation of any kind and I do not drive or work for situations and reasons that I learned to accept and take as they are.. I do not want to read my partners mind or try to interpret signals. I do not want to be forced to move faster in a relationship than I am ready. I do not want to be manipulated into taking all the blame for things gone wrong. I do not want to be on the receiving end of game playing.I want a partner who can laugh at herself and who has courage and strength. I want someone who can see her part in relationship dynamics and own it. She has to be emotionally stable. I want someone who is developing herself personally, and who takes responsibility for her emotional experience.Fidelity is an absolute must. In fact, I want someone who does not have a “roaming eye” and who can wholeheartedly commit to the relationship. Many may define commitment as fidelity plus the willingness to work on the relationship — even when the going gets tough.Many women treat men in ways that diminish their egos, making them feel inadequate. I would rather have more praise, more acknowledgment of what I do right, more acknowledgment that I am one who is loved and appreciated by my partner as I acknowledge the same thing back to my partner.Also if my partner lives out of state or elsewhere I hope the chance for them to relocate would be considered if any relationships get off the and finally one last thing is I love to cuddle and I want to spoil my mate with hugs and kisses and I do believe I am marriage material and I have alot to give if given the opportunity and I have a positive attitude and a beautiful spirit. I am a Romantic, very optimistic, fun, loving, calm, understanding, very affectionate, a strong shoulder to support my partner, dedicated, loyal, good hearted, a great sense of humor, intelligent, down-to-earth man.. I know life is too short so I enjoy living life to its fullest. Am the rare man that his smile comes out easily and I enjoy making other people smile. I like doing things unexpected to show my mate how much I appreciate her. So loyalty is very important to me. I take commitment very seriously and expect the same from my mate. I look for someone that believes Love,Trust and marriage is sacred and should be a lifelong commitment. I love kids in general. I am not complicated, just a simple soul. I love to smile and I am very giving. I am fun to be with. I am nice, friendly good kind caring loving and sweet, I am a very happy person. I am fun-loving, not moody and have a sense of humor. I have a lot of interests and am always open to something new

Dramatic Muffin's photo
Thu 09/09/21 07:04 AM
Okay, thanks for letting us know. waving

Laska Paul 's photo
Thu 09/09/21 07:21 AM


I really don't have time to Read all This so,,
I will Just Say Good Evening Friends .

soufiehere's photo
Thu 09/09/21 07:27 AM
.. I want no manipulation of any kind and I do not drive or work for situations and reasons that I learned to accept and take as they are..
People who tell others what they should be never get far..
how are you marriage material if you do not drive or work?

All I see is..me, me me.

justaokguy's photo
Wed 09/15/21 08:22 AM
Maybe a blow up doll would fit your long list of criteria.