There is some understanding gap bw me and my wife, i am bit frustrated because of every day drama but the thing is i cant leave her as she will take my 3 year old kid with herself to whom i love so much

Sounds dramatic..

A solicitor from your country should have the relevant knowledge about custody rights. But I would asked for shared custody rights.

I would suggest you to go to the Home Court where simple disputes like this are solved by Experts

Why aren't you seeking marriage counselling? Shouldn't that be the first step in trying to make your marriage work?

Also, what's the point of making a profile here that is the exact opposite of your current status (married with a child)? I am, of course, not saying that a married person isn't free/welcome to make a profile on a dating site....especially ones such as this where you can actually be online just to chat and make friends. I realize that some people find it easier to speak to a stranger than to seek help IRL. However, your profile should portray that fact.

So you go on the internet and advertise yourself as a "bottom" looking for an intimate encounter???

Oh yeah, that's going to score a lot of points in divorce court.