Topic: Why do I attract the ones who only want to talk about sex??
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Fri 07/01/22 05:07 PM
I would love for you to read my profile and let me know what you think. I seem to attract all the guys who want to just talk about sex or do the cyber sex thing. I've read through my profile and I just don't see it but that's why I need another set of eyes.

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Fri 07/01/22 06:03 PM
Hi Denese

Perhaps consider deleting the comment about
… blowing his mind and feeling free to ask any questions:wink:

Consider deleting the photos of you pouting / blowing a kiss . Although I would consider such poses a harmless sexual expression some men can be more opportunistic and need little visual encouragement . Also as an international site .. men from other cultures may misinterpret your intention .

Some women will comment on their profile they are not interested in sex chat .. whether that works as a deterrent is doubtful lol .

You do not need to respond to men who open conversation with a sexual remark/question .

Make sure you set your filters high as to who can message you . Browse profiles and contact men you are interested in .


Wish you the very best of luck waving

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Fri 07/01/22 06:25 PM
Your profile is perfectly fine. Nothing sexual about it.

My only suggestion might be to split it up into more than 1 long paragraph for easier reading. Otherwise, I don't see much of anything wrong with your profile as is.