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i just need to know should a job come
in between a relationship.i lost my girlfreind over my job. becuase she said we wasn't spending alot of time together.i don't understant it cuz we was together very night, she know when we got to gether that my job in the winter time the hour's suck. i work day's and night's and some weekend's i care for her and i want to make to work.but it's my job and i like it.so what do i do try working it out with her or move on and find someone who understand's what a way to start the new year out... |
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she wants out my freind and she's using a lame excuse, instead of being honest with out.... Thats a red Flag..... let her go...
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I suspect there may be a little more to this story than you are sharing here..
I hear a whole lot more to this, than suddenly your job is taking precedent over your relationship. 
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yep your job hasnt changed maybe she has move on
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Is she willing to support you? Probably not. Sounds like she may need to grow up. We all have to make a living. I would not give up your job. If she truely loved you she would be more understanding and take what time she could spend with you. I would say let her go and look for someone more understanding and worthy of you. Just my opinion. If I was in love with someone, I would wait for that person no matter what or how long they were gone.
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she should understand that the job puts food on the table.at least you come home. my uncle lives out of the us more then in for 20 years or more and they are just as much in love as day one. they have 2 kids and all is good.if she is having a problem with you working it might be a good time to think hard is it ok what she is doing to you,it sounds like a controlling thing.john
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From a woman's view point... she wants out...your job is not the issue...she knew about your job when you both started this relationship. Keep working and especially if you enjoy what you do...Happy New Year everyone...
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happy new year
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Geeeez, lets all just slander this woman based on a handful of words, all pointing at her being the bad person, and not even consider the other's reasons for this relationship ending.
I get a little tired of people, who will not accept their part, and just expect everyone to believe the one side of the story. |
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I suspect there may be a little more to this story than you are sharing here.. I hear a whole lot more to this, than suddenly your job is taking precedent over your relationship. i'll be honest with you she is up sit that when we make plan's i get called in to work come on now it's not my doing's.job ant ez to come by.. |
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Well, perhaps you can upgrade, cause women are easy to come by, especially if you want a low maintenance, take for granted one.
Piece of cake. NEXT. |
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No Bodys bashing her..... she's just not being honest.. she wants to hit the trail but doesn't have the guts to be honest and state the real resons that she want to end the relationship....
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I suspect there may be a little more to this story than you are sharing here.. I hear a whole lot more to this, than suddenly your job is taking precedent over your relationship. i'll be honest with you she is up sit that when we make plan's i get called in to work come on now it's not my doing's.job ant ez to come by.. |
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No Bodys bashing her..... she's just not being honest.. she wants to hit the trail but doesn't have the guts to be honest and state the real resons that she want to end the relationship.... Totally based on what the OP chose to share here. And of course, NOTHING is omitted. 
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i just need to know should a job come in between a relationship.i lost my girlfreind over my job. becuase she said we wasn't spending alot of time together.i don't understant it cuz we was together very night, she know when we got to gether that my job in the winter time the hour's suck. i work day's and night's and some weekend's i care for her and i want to make to work.but it's my job and i like it.so what do i do try working it out with her or move on and find someone who understand's what a way to start the new year out... When you get home, do you eat and pass out? Do you pay attention to her? Ask how her day went? I'm a guy who's worked 12 hour shifts and was happy to get home. Still took the time to see how her day went, to discuss whatever, spend time with her. Support works both ways as does doing the work necessary for a relationship to work. |
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Two sides to every story....Oprah ..... I'm out of here....
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you can believe what you want to..i know the truth
i have no reson to lie.i just thank this go's for both men and wemen we will use any reson to get out of a relationship. why not be honest and till the truth ya it might hurt.but that's just part of growing up.. |
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lovesflowerstoo.
said it..!! she should be loving enough to accept what you like.. if it ultimatley helps you be a better man.. Tami |
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i just need to know should a job come in between a relationship.i lost my girlfreind over my job. becuase she said we wasn't spending alot of time together.i don't understant it cuz we was together very night, she know when we got to gether that my job in the winter time the hour's suck. i work day's and night's and some weekend's i care for her and i want to make to work.but it's my job and i like it.so what do i do try working it out with her or move on and find someone who understand's what a way to start the new year out... get off at 5;00 pm and back to work at 9;00 pm until 2-3 in the moring.in the summer time it ant like that.and yes i do show her i care we only been together 60 day's When you get home, do you eat and pass out? Do you pay attention to her? Ask how her day went? I'm a guy who's worked 12 hour shifts and was happy to get home. Still took the time to see how her day went, to discuss whatever, spend time with her. Support works both ways as does doing the work necessary for a relationship to work. |
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Was she from this site?
Did you meet her here? |
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