Ageism is alive and well! People make an assumption that others in a certain age range must be a certain way both in their physical ability and mental attitude. This is totally false. We are each at a certain physical and mental condition Which often doesn't match our chronological age. That is one of the strongest reasons why meeting IRL is so much better than dating apps. You get to actually observe that other person and determine how their physical and mental condition will meet your needs.