Yes, real love is often hard to find because it's not just about romance; it's about deep, selfless connection, mutual growth, and consistent effort, requiring vulnerability and sacrifice, especially when people often seek instant gratification, have unrealistic expectations, or struggle with their own emotional availability. Many look for love to feel good (being loved), rather than seeing it as a challenging, transformative act of giving and serving another without expectation, making true partnership rare and difficult to sustain.

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