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Topic: Am I just too ugly, boring, or both?
brianb8's photo
Fri 01/18/08 03:33 PM
Hello all, I've messaged lots of ladies on here, but get no reply....I don't know if this is normal for fellas, or if I'm just the outcast here!!!!! Help a brother out, ladies, and let me know why you all do not respond!!! I'm not being rude, crude, or lewd, I'm just trying to meet new people..

bobdesigns4262's photo
Fri 01/18/08 03:35 PM
you just gotta invite them to the "dark" side or hang out a different kinda fishing lure....

YourLove1's photo
Fri 01/18/08 03:35 PM
laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh join the party...

jtitol's photo
Fri 01/18/08 03:35 PM
its normal
glasses

foresight's photo
Fri 01/18/08 03:36 PM

Hello all, I've messaged lots of ladies on here, but get no reply....I don't know if this is normal for fellas, or if I'm just the outcast here!!!!! Help a brother out, ladies, and let me know why you all do not respond!!! I'm not being rude, crude, or lewd, I'm just trying to meet new people..
laugh

YourLove1's photo
Fri 01/18/08 03:36 PM

you just gotta invite them to the "dark" side or hang out a different kinda fishing lure....
or try new bait ..laugh laugh

samtee68's photo
Fri 01/18/08 03:36 PM
It might just be that you're not what they're looking for? I've received a lot of responses, but I don't think anyone is taking the time to read the profile, because I requested a certain age group and race and am getting responses from all anyway.
However, I usually respond and let someone know I'm not interested. Come on ladies, do the same. It's the courteous thing to do.

sexykarebear's photo
Fri 01/18/08 03:38 PM

Hello all, I've messaged lots of ladies on here, but get no reply....I don't know if this is normal for fellas, or if I'm just the outcast here!!!!! Help a brother out, ladies, and let me know why you all do not respond!!! I'm not being rude, crude, or lewd, I'm just trying to meet new people..

well you aren't ugly that's for sure, maybe you are just talking to the wrong kinds of girls *shrugs* just keep trying!I answer everyone who writes me, but maybe that makes ME an outcast lol

jtitol's photo
Fri 01/18/08 03:38 PM
try shaving maybe that helps

Softtail70's photo
Fri 01/18/08 03:39 PM

It might just be that you're not what they're looking for? I've received a lot of responses, but I don't think anyone is taking the time to read the profile, because I requested a certain age group and race and am getting responses from all anyway.
However, I usually respond and let someone know I'm not interested. Come on ladies, do the same. It's the courteous thing to do.

drinker Come on girls....he is a handsome guy...and looks like a hot one too....Nice profile.....Too bad I am a mature girl....LMAOdrinker

DebbieJT's photo
Fri 01/18/08 03:40 PM
your profile looks good hun

Ising's photo
Fri 01/18/08 03:40 PM
Well you're def. not ugly. I don't know I think it's just timing. I've experienced the same thing.. I would say don't take it personally. It takes time!! Be patient.....
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Softtail70's photo
Fri 01/18/08 03:40 PM


It might just be that you're not what they're looking for? I've received a lot of responses, but I don't think anyone is taking the time to read the profile, because I requested a certain age group and race and am getting responses from all anyway.
However, I usually respond and let someone know I'm not interested. Come on ladies, do the same. It's the courteous thing to do.

drinker Come on girls....he is a handsome guy...and looks like a hot one too....Nice profile.....Too bad I am a mature girl....LMAOdrinker

Oops...Older mature girl....

no photo
Fri 01/18/08 03:40 PM
they should call this site, just friends.

jtitol's photo
Fri 01/18/08 03:42 PM
laugh:

they should call this site, just friends.
laugh laugh

bobdesigns4262's photo
Fri 01/18/08 03:44 PM
i still say hang out some new bait...works every time

MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Fri 01/18/08 03:44 PM
Get out in the posts and be known! drinker

bobdesigns4262's photo
Fri 01/18/08 03:45 PM
or dip your lure in a new pond...

Popper1977's photo
Fri 01/18/08 03:52 PM
It is more than likely not yourself or your profile. With this being a "free" dating program I don't believe that the majority of people take it seriously. And women generally do not like to write back regardless. Try asking questions in your intro e-mails?

smoothguy's photo
Fri 01/18/08 04:13 PM
yeah xactly!

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